Thinking of breaking No Contact, II...
Thinking of breaking No Contact, II...
Here is the thought for the day about that, courtesy of Its Finally Time, who has committed to changing the script and re-creating a life without chaos, poor treatment and destruction.
Anyone thinking of breaking no contact to tell your abuser off, or to whine about your victim-hood, please read these EMPOWERING WORDS FIRST: (Thank you Its Finally...)
"Ugh. WHY would you want to give him the incredible gift of telling him how much he screwed you up?!?! That is Christmas, a trip to Disney and a visit from the tooth fairy all in one for a Narc. Why women think it's attractive or whatever to tell some douche bag how he screwed them is beyond me. You will look weak and pathetic. He does NOT give a shit and he will GLOAT about it. STOP.
Do NOT e-mail him, call him, text him or send a carrier pigeon or smoke signals. And STOP DRINKING until you're in a much, much, MUCH better place. Go to bed. Tomorrow is another day...."
Couldn't have said it better myself. This is the unvarnished TRUTH. The person who brought you here won't suddenly love you, feel badly, have regrets or run back into your arms if you lay out all your sacrifices for the "relationship..."
If you're done, YOUR SILENCE SAYS YOU'RE DONE.
Love,
(not) spinning
THANK YOU!
Thank you, Spinning. It was
BB it's simple really
I'm realizing
Exactly BB
Yes, yes, yes, and here's
spinning
Thank you, (not) Spinning
Thank you for sharing,
I wish I had listened...
BB
Dee, is it amazing how they
BB... I know it took courage to admit breaking NC
Thanks FreeMe..
bb
BB
truth
Lies..
So much drama
I know I brought it all on myself..
I did the same thing..
That probably came off harsher than I meant it to... sorry!
Alright, BB, this will be
spinning
The truth is..
bb
Drinking
bb
BB, for some reason
spinning
and so it begins spinnings...
I keep trying to dig deep.
After reading your last post