GOT A CALL FROM ONE OF THE PSYCHO'S FORMER VICTIMS!..

it was very validating but also very upsetting......
i couldn't afford to buy an obit for the paper...one in which i could say whatever i wanted to say....so i did my own...Amazig Grace as the background music....with a picture of the orange judas on his deathbed......i didn't go into gory detail...but i laid it on the line...about the lives he destroyed, about him dying from ALCOHOLISM...about how he didn't 'pass away'..he RAN AWAY.....
in his rat hole i'd found a fairly extensive sucker list...so all the names that had emails....i emailed them a link to my little 'memorial'.......
and yesterday i started getting emails from a woman...the first one was full of phony sympathies..so i emailed her back and said......'spare me the trite condolences...he was a piece of shit'.......then she emailed me back and said...'hey..you're his WIFE...i thought it was his sister (we have the same name, gag)...listen..i'd like to tell you about some phone conversations i had with him a couple of years ago...i think you might find them interesting'......so i sent her my phone number and she called me......

i got him out of the house on november 25,2007....he left with my car that wasn't paid for...and with thousands of dollars in cash hidden in his shoes....money he'd taken off my american express card he'd stolen out of the safe....and some money he'd stolen from a client.....
he went and piled up in a motel room....his sprees usually last exactly two weeks...and usually after a couple of days he would start leaving me nasty messages on the answering machine...this time he went complete radio silence......
i was ok with that except he had my car.....
i had a computer nerd come over and go through the office computer...and he found a treasure trove of evidence...thousands of porn sites, of course...but even better..he found evidence that the psycho was cyber stalking some woman ....PRE NEED......
he had of course been planning his biannual winter spree...but this time he'd done MONTHS of work....
the woman in question, i found out after the fact, was a woman he had D&D'd 30 years before!!...he was recycling a victim from 30 years ago!...let this be a warning to ALL of us.....

when the computer guy went through my office computer, he found that the psycho had googled this woman...MAPQUESTED her house....gone through COURT RECORDS to see if she was married, divorced etc...went through public records to see if her parents were dead...if she had inherited money...the value of her home...what kind of cars she owned.....he'd been one busy little psychopath!...

anyway.....he finally surfaced....with a call to a mutual friend...which he followed up by a couple of snotty voice mails to me....telling about how he had 'reconnected with the ONE'.....the love of his life!...a woman who had ALWAYS loved him...a kind, sweet, generous, giving soul....unlike me, controlling hateful bitch....and that he was going to be moving into her big farm....and she was going to provide him with everything he needed or wanted...because she was THE ONE....his one true love.........

uh huh....well of he thought he was slick...he never dreamed i'd had a computer nerd shifting through the hard drive for evidence......i had the NAME of his victim...her ADDRESSS....sooooooo i strolled down to the courthouse and got a ex parte against the psycho....and put that address down as his last known place of residence.....figured that would paint his little red wagon.......

now, come to find out...he had no little red wagon to paint!...he woman who called me yesterday....it was her...the woman he was cyber stalking pre need......and talking to her was an amazing glimpse into how cold blooded that bastard was.......how cold blooded they ALL are......

this is getting long.......stay tuned for part two....if i don't have a cup of coffee i'm gonna pass out........