My two year friendship with a girl....
My two year friendship with a girl....
The letter I wrote around 1-1-12...
I've been upset because I cannot continue our up and down drama. At times, it floods back memories of my ex husband and his controlling jealous ways.
Why would two people who are suppose to be friends make snide remarks when one or the other spends time with different people? I feel like I have to withhold info if I've been going out with someone else and doing other things. It feels mentally unstable and I will not accept it.
We have had a lot of great times together and I would like to have more but I am not living my life where I have to worry that if I don't call you, email you, chat with you, go places with you, FB, etc. on a daily basis, you take it personally and become hostile towards me.
I hope we can have a light and healthy friendship but I am serious. I cannot fix your issues and mood swings, if I could I would.
Since that letter, she has sought professional help but is now questioning every aspect of her "toxic" personality. My last response was that I didn't know how to respond to her questions. I'm tired and just want to be free.
Wow! She actually sought