The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....

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#1 July 24, 2012 - 12:23pm
Tigiangel
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The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....

Seeing him at work every so often just rakes up all the emotions over & over again. I feel strong then,.. I see him ( we don't talk) and my head goes into a spin and I walk around with this big black cloud over my head for days feeling so down & depressed. I've been really good with the NC outside of work, I've read so much about the Narc & their traits & behaviour but then I see him....and wham! I saw him yesterday, my stomach did somersaults, I miss him,.... Long for him it's ok I know I'm actually missing the person he pretended to be before the mask slipped and he wasn't real but I'm going round in circles with this and I beat myself up when I shouldn't. I feel so sad he is the way he is, he was lovely before he revealed his true, inadequate self. I go for a few weeks without having to see him then he's back in the office again and there is nothing I can do about it. :-(

Note to self: do not get involved with anyone you work with again!

November 17, 2013 - 10:18am
lostmymind71
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The NC is impossible because I have to see him at work....

August 19, 2013 - 3:33pm
Peacenlove
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A year later...

November 17, 2013 - 10:13am (Reply to #12)
Tigiangel
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Well.........

November 17, 2013 - 6:05pm (Reply to #13)
Peacenlove
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Hang in there!

August 29, 2013 - 12:15pm (Reply to #8)
Peacenlove
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Mine quit! Now I can finally

August 29, 2013 - 2:46pm (Reply to #9)
Luckyescape
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Fantastic news

August 29, 2013 - 5:25pm (Reply to #10)
Peacenlove
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Thanks for the reassurance

September 10, 2013 - 3:26pm (Reply to #11)
Peacenlove
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Hovering

August 17, 2012 - 9:46am
Rinalda
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It does get better

July 24, 2012 - 2:09pm
Hunter
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UGH!!

July 24, 2012 - 1:36pm
Jenna H
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Tigiangel

July 24, 2012 - 3:05pm (Reply to #2)
Tigiangel
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Not really....

July 24, 2012 - 3:08pm (Reply to #3)
Jenna H
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Thanks TA!

July 24, 2012 - 5:12pm (Reply to #4)
Tigiangel
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Absolutely