He never hoovered - just let me go

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#1 June 1, 2013 - 11:08am
Canflitz
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He never hoovered - just let me go

It's been 2 months on Tuesday since I went no contact with my ex. He never ever hoovered me? whilst it made it easier for me I'm just wondering why he never did? Was it just that I did him a favour just stopping talking to him like he told a mutual friend? Why didn't he feel I was worthy of hoovering? Does 2 months mean he never will?

January 8, 2018 - 8:02pm
Athena35
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Spot on!

January 8, 2018 - 8:06pm (Reply to #42)
Athena35
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Wanted to comment to another comment, sorry

January 8, 2018 - 8:05pm (Reply to #41)
Athena35
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Wanted to comment to another comment, sorry

June 12, 2013 - 2:02pm
Hunter
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The silent treatment is a

June 4, 2013 - 4:33pm
indigorabbit
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book

June 4, 2013 - 4:33pm (Reply to #38)
indigorabbit
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oh, I was trying to reply to

June 4, 2013 - 1:53pm
indigorabbit
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hoovering

January 8, 2018 - 8:04pm (Reply to #36)
Athena35
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Spot on!

June 4, 2013 - 4:21pm (Reply to #35)
thebigpayback
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indigo rabbit, your

June 2, 2013 - 2:26pm
Goldie
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The Hoover is Not a Compliment

June 2, 2013 - 11:05am
IncognitoBurrito
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2 months

June 2, 2013 - 5:45pm (Reply to #32)
Better Now
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Well said Incognitoburrito

June 1, 2013 - 11:39pm
Better Now
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You are not out of the woods yet--

June 1, 2013 - 6:37pm
Im_always_fine
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It's only been two months.

June 1, 2013 - 3:07pm
say.no.to.narci...
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Not being hoovered is as much

June 1, 2013 - 2:27pm
Deidre99
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The ONLY reason they

June 12, 2013 - 2:12am (Reply to #27)
rear_window
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I couldn't have said it

June 1, 2013 - 12:54pm
thebigpayback
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although it does not matter

June 1, 2013 - 12:37pm
Brave
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I've been hoovered a few

June 2, 2013 - 4:01pm (Reply to #24)
Allesandra
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Brave

June 1, 2013 - 12:36pm
wishidnevergone...
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totally get what you are thinking

June 11, 2013 - 8:40pm (Reply to #22)
Learningthehardway
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Wishing....

June 1, 2013 - 12:33pm
TruthbeginsToday
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It's a gift toyou!

June 1, 2013 - 2:16pm (Reply to #20)
True2me
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Truth

June 1, 2013 - 12:31pm
unbreakable
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All I can say is I wish I

June 1, 2013 - 11:37am
lessonlearned
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it could mean any number of things

June 1, 2013 - 11:43am (Reply to #2)
Canflitz
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I know it's not a compliment.

June 1, 2013 - 8:31pm (Reply to #17)
Janie53
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Canflitz

June 1, 2013 - 4:41pm (Reply to #16)
ItsFinallytime
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Why do you know he never

June 1, 2013 - 12:59pm (Reply to #15)
thebigpayback
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i am just wondering why he

June 1, 2013 - 12:00pm (Reply to #14)
Allesandra
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Canflitz

June 1, 2013 - 11:59am (Reply to #3)
lessonlearned
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"never" is a strong word

June 1, 2013 - 12:08pm (Reply to #5)
Canflitz
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No I won't feel better as I

June 3, 2013 - 4:56am (Reply to #6)
Journey
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It isn't true that they

Journey on...

June 3, 2013 - 9:12am (Reply to #7)
Stace
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Does them not hoovering

June 3, 2013 - 2:27pm (Reply to #8)
Journey
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Well every narc has his own

Journey on...

June 3, 2013 - 8:13pm (Reply to #9)
Stace
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Thank you Journey xx I can

June 3, 2013 - 8:59pm (Reply to #10)
Journey
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Oh ya, exactly. He had lined

Journey on...

June 4, 2013 - 10:01am (Reply to #11)
Stace
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Thank ypu Journey xxxx Yes

June 4, 2013 - 10:14am (Reply to #12)
lessonlearned
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engagement

June 5, 2013 - 9:59am (Reply to #13)
Stace
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Yep mine once even said to me

June 1, 2013 - 12:01pm (Reply to #4)
Used
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or even have a word at work!!