Reaching out in a different way....please.

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#1 April 7, 2014 - 12:03pm
janice m m
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Reaching out in a different way....please.

Just found out my exN boss denied my unemployment claim. I know this isn't a boyfriend-husband, etc. The feelings of emptiness are here however, and I feel horrible just the same. I came here to this board 3 years ago seeking solace from N boyfriend. This is just a caution to all of you here that you can attract them in all forms. I did fight back, but still....My father was a psychopath--many, but not all men in my life paths and narcs. I don't need admonishment or I told you so. I worked very hard and brought wonderful things to this place...of course that wasn't the problem. I slowly caught on to the narcdom and I knew what spiral it would eventually take on. Abrupt landing later--I really needed this help to get my feet back on the ground. It's a very small town and his charming ways have made my re-employment to anybody near impossible. I will get back up-somehow, I know. Please-no pulling of bootstrap quips. I'm exhausted-lonely-torpid-lost-misunderstood-shy-mute. Know your enemy. Know who you are dealing with out there no matter the situation-work or play.

April 10, 2014 - 9:13pm
celsiana
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hi j m m

April 12, 2014 - 1:04pm (Reply to #8)
janice m m
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Can you give me some tips

April 12, 2014 - 1:13pm (Reply to #9)
Goldie
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I would think going to your state's site would be a great

April 12, 2014 - 1:33pm (Reply to #10)
Hunter
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Yes, since you have time on

April 7, 2014 - 3:11pm
Journey
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Hi, I'm confused by what you

Journey on...

April 7, 2014 - 5:12pm (Reply to #3)
janice m m
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Lies of course. All lies. And

April 7, 2014 - 7:48pm (Reply to #6)
Goldie
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Yes you can

April 7, 2014 - 5:30pm (Reply to #4)
janice m m
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He changed the locks-accused

April 7, 2014 - 6:54pm (Reply to #5)
Willow
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How about a one-on-one with

April 7, 2014 - 12:15pm
spinning
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janice m m, I send you a

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