confused
confused
HI.
I am trying to not engage with my Narc husband when I know he is lying or sneaking as it gets me nowhere. However, after I not engage/"take the bait" by walking away or hanging up how do I stop thinking about it? I get so angry about him lying and sneaking and it seems to me that by not engaging he is just getting away with what he wants to do but now with no hassle/accountability (by me not engaging) whatsoever.
He lies/sneaks constantly and changes his story from minute to minute. When I use to bring that to his attention he would then get amnesia all of a sudden and act like he couldn't remember what he just told me. It got me no where so I don't do this anymore. I know he is lying and he's not about to tell me the truth. However, me keeping all that inside seems to be doing me more harm than good. I just keep spinning on it and getting angrier and angrier while he does what he wants with no repercussions.
I just am getting more and more depressed and feel so lost and out of control about what to do...
Just checking in, a few weeks
Are you afraid to leave? Don
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In a way,
Yep that's right...
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Hi Know,
Nothing will change in this
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Hi Confused.
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