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#1 Aug 12 - 12PM
knowregretz
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confused

HI.

I am trying to not engage with my Narc husband when I know he is lying or sneaking as it gets me nowhere. However, after I not engage/"take the bait" by walking away or hanging up how do I stop thinking about it? I get so angry about him lying and sneaking and it seems to me that by not engaging he is just getting away with what he wants to do but now with no hassle/accountability (by me not engaging) whatsoever.

He lies/sneaks constantly and changes his story from minute to minute. When I use to bring that to his attention he would then get amnesia all of a sudden and act like he couldn't remember what he just told me. It got me no where so I don't do this anymore. I know he is lying and he's not about to tell me the truth. However, me keeping all that inside seems to be doing me more harm than good. I just keep spinning on it and getting angrier and angrier while he does what he wants with no repercussions.

I just am getting more and more depressed and feel so lost and out of control about what to do...

Sep 16 - 10PM
Deidre99
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Just checking in, a few weeks

Aug 14 - 9AM
Lookforward
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Are you afraid to leave? Don

Aug 14 - 12PM (Reply to #8)
knowregretz
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Reply to LookForward/Don

Sep 19 - 9AM (Reply to #12)
tiredofthisaddiction
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In a way,

Sep 19 - 10AM (Reply to #13)
knowregretz
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Yep that's right...

Aug 14 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
Lookforward
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Hi Know,

Aug 17 - 8AM (Reply to #10)
knowregretz
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Reply to LookForward

Aug 17 - 11AM (Reply to #11)
Lookforward
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Hi Know,

Aug 13 - 3PM
Journey
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Nothing will change in this

Journey on...

Aug 14 - 12PM (Reply to #6)
knowregretz
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Reply to Journey

Aug 13 - 12PM
ItsFinallytime
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Hi Confused.

Aug 14 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
knowregretz
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Reply to ItsFinallytime

Aug 13 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
Goldie
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Thank you Finally

Aug 14 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
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