How to "Block" a Narc AFTER he Blocked you First on Facebook, Plus his Friends

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#1 Jan 6 - 1AM
NoIsYourBestFriend
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How to "Block" a Narc AFTER he Blocked you First on Facebook, Plus his Friends

Do you know that you can "block" someone on Facebook AFTER they have blocked you first? Yes you can!
I am willing to bet that many narcs suddenly "block" you by surprise only to un-block you during a "hoovering" that you never know when it will happen. It is frustrating if you want "No Contact" but your narc "controls" the blocking and un-blocking.

You have the power to "block" your narc without him knowing you blocked him until he ends his silent treatment and decides he is going un-blocks you (and they ALWAYS do at some point) because narcs "hoover".

I found out you can "block" someone AFTER they have blocked you on Facebook and even people you are not friends with such as the Narc's friends who may be able to see (spy on) parts of your site.

Go to: https://www.facebook.com/settings?tab=blocking

- In the "Block Users" box type in the name of who you want to block (don't worry if the name does NOT pop up, it won't if they blocked you first OR you are not Facebook friends with them).

- After you type in name click the "Block" button. The name (or list of the same name) will show and you can then click on the name of "your" narc or his friends even his new "supply" and block them all.

It's not petty it is your protection. It takes the power from the narc who "decides" when he can "unblock" you and re-block by surprise. Also "his" friends who may be spying on you. Very often you have no idea if a narc is unblocking you unless you are constantly checking which you wouldn't if you are No Contact.

If you may very much want "No Contact" but you can run into the problem of a narc stealth unblocking you, waiting 48 (Facebook makes you wait 48 hours to re-block someone again) so he can wait it out before he re-blocks after he sends a nasty message you can't reply to because HE controls the blocking.

Well, give him a surprise he doesn't expect as he sneaks out of blocking you (such as when you are asleep) he will discover he can't "find" you on Facebook. He may think you closed your account. Or it may take him awhile to figure out that you BLOCKED HIM. Either way, you take some of the power away from him and his friends.

Jan 27 - 5PM
Goldie
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Thank you for the info