I want to date and fall in love. (For real)

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#1 Aug 20 - 6PM
Armed
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I want to date and fall in love. (For real)

It's been almost 6 years since my N. I feel confident and ready to be in a loving relationship. I currently live in fear that all men are the same although cognitively I know that isn't true. I met someone a year ago who turned into a total jerk so that was cut short and quick!

Recently I met someone whom I've known about a month and like very much. There has been no talk of rushing into a relationship. I'm so afraid! We've been on one date that was amazing! I spent the entire day talking with him and the time flew by. I was freaked out so I haven't met with him again feeling as though it was too good of a first date to be true. I wish I could just speed up the knowing. I don't want to be disappointed and waste my time again. How will I know? I don't want to mess this up either out of fear of he truly is a nice guy. In so scared.

Anyone who has found love with a healthy man care to give advice, please! I'm going crazy worrying. This is the worst feeling.