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#1 May 13, 2015 - 3:38am
KSM
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Since we had a disagreement 3 weeks ago the N girl is giving me cold shoulder or blanking me completely - I wish it didnt affect me but it does , makes me feel like cant goto the staff room for lunch or make a drink in case I bump into her. Can just feel the resentment / contempt towards me . And after all the support I've given her over last 4 years . Am starting to realise how nasty she can be and that I've been so naive to her ways thinking she was such a good friend . Officially we were only ever friends but felt like lot more than friends and used to go lunch every day and chat for hour on phone nearly every day - for a year or 2 she seemed to be best friend I've ever had . Now I feel like dont have real friends because i don't have anyone who phones me every day like she used to or that I connect with The way i used to with her . Have now decided to keep away from her as much as possible but it's a small workplace and she's good at being extra nice to other people in front of me while ignoring me . And it's so annoying that everyone things she's so sweet and nice and she's always got guys flirting with her and has no problem finding people to do favours for her . And it's more annoying that no-one understands , if I talk to any of my friends and say I'm having this problem with a girl at work they just brush it aside - just ignore her - like it's that easy .