Confused
Confused
It is so confusing for me to understand why after all that he did to get me to move in with him(I left everything I had and moved to another country).He decided shortly after that we were better off as friends, and I bought it because we had been good friends in the beginning, and I wanted to show him that I wasn't resentful-- that people had a right to change their minds, as I was told by certain people in the process of understanding what had all happened ( I still don't).
At the time I had no idea he was a narcissist or anything like that. I thought it was because he didnt know what he wanted (that's another thing people told me). He had just finished college .. I am 10 plus years older than him.
It was then as "friends" that he did begin to show this aggressive side of his that I had not been privy to before. I don't understand why he would do that after the break-up and not during the actual relationship. I am not saying there weren't any signs but there was no swearing, no shouting, no crying ...
After the break-up I was a mess and did somethings against myself that he then turned around to make himself look like the victim, and that's when the whole nightmare started. My guilt was so huge all I wanted was to make it up to him, but no matter what I did,other circumstance would arise, and I ended up more at fault than before. There seemed to be no end to what I could do wrong ..and again I am talking about a situation where we were supposed to be only "friends."
startanew
confused?
Now that my marriage is over
To get back at the ex
4joys May be Right - Getting Back at Ex
shallow, phony, not human
barbara