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#1 Aug 18 - 2AM
Anonymous (not verified)
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Drama

Hey guys I am reading on this post (this is my favourite one - because it helps me so much!) that N's love drama. What kind of drama did you guys experience? Do you mean fights etc? If they get bored so easily will they fabricate a situation or cause drama to excite things or shake things up?

I read from a few of you that they LOVE police attention and loving calling the police on you because it creates drama and supply for them. But that is kind of sick? Why would they love that kind of attention and how is that suply?

(this question was important in understanding Narcissists so we moved it to it's own thread)

Aug 18 - 11AM
dolce (not verified)
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My Drama

Yes drama as soon as all was peaceful. He always brought me his issues, and I would try to fix them. Whether it was another woman, losing his job, trouble with others, dealing with his secrets, his lies, his poor-mes, there was always something going on that he laid in my lap to fix. I knew what was happening and soon stopped fixing, but he still drove me insane. I HAD to get away from this man. As I've said before..he is poison. His final drama was when I confronted him on yet another lie and asked him to spent the night in another place or I knew there would be trouble. I was so angry at this point. So he broke down the door and pushed me and I called the police. He had never gotten physical before, but it was in him as I soon found out. What a creep. Good riddens! haha!
Aug 18 - 5PM (Reply to #6)
Barbara (not verified)
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narcissistic supply - it's VITAL to get away from them

http://www.coachgirl.com/coachgirl/nsup.html
Aug 18 - 6AM
quietude (not verified)
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drama

Every day was an undercurrent of drama, usually in the form of how he was feeling...sad, lost, not appreciated, not good enough for me, I deserve better. Usually in the form of e-mails. Mostly I reassured him, it sucked all of my energy to keep up with his inner turmoil, and still try to have some kind of life while juggling work, family, home, etc...There were few completely peaceful days without some type of disturbance to my psyche, no matter how subtle. Then he'd create mountains out of molehills and dwell on that sh** for days or longer. Sometimes those molehills would turn into big fights due to me not getting WTF was going on. And then when things seemed happier and moving along, he'd abandon me out of the blue, which I guess you can say is the ultimate drama. They just love to stir the pot. I am so so so happy I don't have to put up with this garbage anymore.
Aug 18 - 2AM
Barbara (not verified)
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cupcake - attention

just read my story if you want drama But that is kind of sick? Hello? knock knock - CLUE PHONE - what have I been saying about them? think... not human, cretins, aliens, freaks? You still think I'm kidding when you read this about them? I don't kid like that. THEY ARE NOT HUMAN - THEY ARE EVIL... E V I L. Can't get more sick than EVIL INCARNATE. Why would they love that kind of attention and how is that supply? Attention is supply. Negative, positive doesn't matter. ATTENTION. For instance, your exN would make plans then stand you up... imagine the thrill (a form of supply) and how funny he thought it was to imagine you there waiting, pining away... and then nothing... http://narc-attack.blogspot.com/2007/02/winning-game.html MORE REQUIRED READING for you: http://www.lisaescott.com/2009/08/18/overview-destructive-narcissism http://narc-attack.blogspot.com/2007/08/narcissistic-nirvana-sweet-sweet... http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com/2006/08/attention-is-drug.html http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com/2009/03/red-flag-hostile-reaction-t... http://narc-attack.blogspot.com/2008/02/welcome-to-narcissists-world-par... Doesn't matter if someone's yelling at them, screwing them, serving them dinner, waiting somewhere for their call (that may or may not come), depending on them, washing their clothes, dragging them to court, believing their lies... it's attention - good, bad - it's their drug of choice: ATTENTION. Indifference? Will kill them slowly & painfully.
Aug 18 - 2AM (Reply to #2)
cupcake (not verified)
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Thanks for the links!

Thanks Barbara, I might get some wine and settle down and read these links. I am slowly starting to realise the sickness of the people and my N. I can't believe him. Standing someone up is a thrill for him I can see that now. I really hate him been going through so many emotions and I HATE that he has got the last word, he hung up on me, he discarded me, he is the one cheating and his girlfriend doesn't believe it but thinks I am a psycho making up stories. I'm not! He did these things and is getting away with it. I have to believe one day she will find out the truth. I want him to marry her or move in with her so she will know. One of the articles here said that when they conquer you (and conquering doesn't mean having sex with you but moving in or marriage - Barbara can I check I have that correct?) their true colours start to show. I hope and pray she will find out I wasn't lying one day. She doesn't know. She doesn't know that he was playing both of us against each other. She doesn't know that he would be online with me sometimes all night telling me I was the most amazing person he had ever known, I was so beautiful and perfect and everything about him and me was right - he said these things and she doesn't know. She doesn't know that after they went away for a weekend he would come over to my house (I didn't know at the time) and be enjoying port and roast dinners and sex with me. I gave him all of that and the WHOLE TIME he had someone. He told me he was lonely and depressed and wanted kids and if we had kids he would love me and marry me forever. I believed him and believed he was lonely. I feel SO STUPID used worthless pathetic psycho alone oh did I say PATHETIC. He HAS someone out there and I am all alone and sad. And pathetic. I am pathetic and I hate this situation and what he is getting away with. I HATE HIM.
Aug 18 - 3AM (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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cupcake - he's someone else's problem now

who gives a rat's a** what he thinks? or that he thinks your psycho? HE's CRAZY, SICK... INCURABLY DISORDERED... and his thinking is all the same. Saying you're a psycho makes him look like the victim so he gets MORE ATTENTION. http://www.cosmicwalk.co.za/games-victims.html http://www.cosmicwalk.co.za/games-accusing.html http://www.cosmicwalk.co.za/games-doubt.html http://www.cosmicwalk.co.za/games-attack.html Conquering you is simply when they KNOW you're in love with them, hooked on them and won't leave them (doesn't have to be marriage or sex) Just that you are emotionally & mentally bonded to them (because they NEVER bond with anyone). As you now know - what they SAY is never truth. The truth is IN THEIR ACTIONS. Don't worry about hers... it's coming - days, months or years from now. And my guess is, he's already got another 'girl on the side.' Like Psycho-Boy's wife she may just put up with it or be in constant denial... which is truly sick also. And I'd rather be normal. What's he getting away with? Being a predator? Ruining people's lives? Wow that's something to be proud of... living your life as a parasite... NOT. I still recommend posting him on the exposure sites and telling your story (be SURE to be truthful and not emotional when you tell it) You can even post it here first for feedback. Make it short sweet and to the point. Click on SHARE YOUR STORY and read Lisa's story, my story and others to get some clues. http://www.peepsheet.com http://www.playerblock.com http://www.cheatersexpose.com http://www.stoptheact.com http://www.ripoffreport.com http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com AND BLOCK his TEXTS, EMAILS, PHONE CALLS - ZERO CONTACT!!! ZERO!!! They alway harass once you've exposed them. Don't let him be able to get to you. Her either. Speak your truth and move forward towards healing. And be careful with HATING him: http://howtospotadangerousman.blogspot.com/2007/12/hate-and-your-potential-for-relapse.html Read all those links. She can have him... thank GOD he's no longer your problem... and you can actually go on to have a life and choose carefully about who you let in it - when you are ready. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily "Some women can fake an orgasm. But some men can fake an entire relationship!" - Sharon Stone