Gifts
Gifts
Hi Everyone,
Just a quick question about gifts that the narcissist gives you in the beginning of a relationship. I have a large plastic container "full" of gifts that he gave me during the months when he was being nice and attentive. I would really like to give these gifts back to him. He told me 6 months ago that I was not to give the gifts back "no matter what happened". What is behind him not wanting back the gifts? I am just curious.
I am doing the No Contact thing and I have good days and bad days. I know that the gift returning would be a form of "contact" to him so I am not going to. I realize now he was warning me ahead of time that something was going to "happen" and he was making it clear he doesnt want me to retaliate by giving these back.
Marcy
Marcy
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