I thought I was doing the right thing...
I thought I was doing the right thing...
First I thought he was an alcoholic, then I thought he was a sex addict, then I thought he had ADHD. Now after reading the book I know he is a narcisist.
The thing is, I have chosen to stay in the marriage.
We have two kids. We get along for the most part. We have done years of intense therapy and I still go for follow up. Although I have many complaints about his parenting, he does help raise them and they adore him.
Although things are pretty calm right now, I know that he still has the thought processes of a narcisist and it is very hard and lonely to live with.
So, though there is less drama, there is no connection. Just our kids and our common interests.
I am willing to just live with it. It makes me sad but even if I divorce him I will still have to deal with him every other weekend because of the kids.
Is there anyone that can support me on this or is EVERYONE against staying with a narcisist?
Narcissists have levels but
jenn99
Can You 'Love' a Narcissist?
staying with an n
trapped
trapped
thanks barbara
I'm staying
thanks
Trapped
no
Started reading women who
http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview
nolongercontrolled
My mother told me the same
mothers' advice
finallydone
Thanks Barbara! I'll