New here and need some help
New here and need some help
Hi everybody! I am new here and looking for some help. There is nobody in my life I can talk to about this because they don't understand. It's not as simple as they think, but from reading other posts on this site I know that you guys will understand. I have been seeing a guy for about 7 months now and things have changed so much. The first few months were great. He was basically prince charming. But in the past few months I have got to know him more and i am seeing someone who is a whole different person.
He makes me feel like nothing. He blames everything on me and has these crazy mood swings. One day he's happy then the next day he "hates the world" and says things like " nobody should praise God they should praise me. I am the God". and he says he hates christmas because he doesn't understand why people can't celebrate him for a whole day. He brings up my past and threatens to hurt any of my ex's if he sees them. I feel like i am constantly walking on eggshells around him. Like nothing I do is right or good enough. He will have a good day where he treats me so good but then there will be a week long period where he talks to me like a piece of garbage. If i get upset or even shed a single tear, he somehow manages to turn it all around on me. I treat him so well and give him all of my heart and he doesn't seem to care.
He lacks compassion. He honestly can't feel for anyone but himself. He says it's not his job to understand how i feel i should just tell him or be quiet, but he expects me to understand him. He doesn't care if i am upset or in pain. He told me that if he saw an old lady laying on the street he would just pass by and not stop. He syas he doesn't know her so why is it his responsibility to help. He says his time is precious. The way he talks makes me sick. He is incapable of feeling for anyone but himself. He cares about money and power more than anything in the world. He is very scary and I don't think i have the strength to leave. He has me so tight. He has made it so that I feel as though I need him. I want to be strong but I am so scared. How do you guys get the courage to leave?
don't be with anyone...
Wow! Are you dating my exN?
Laura...please leave now
Seriously! GET OUT NOW
kate
Ending the dance
LauaS
Ending the dance
Laura
Agreed
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nolongercontrolled
welcome laura
Laura,,get out NOW
Laura
I am now realizing that I
yes....
A lot of us were afraid to
Please listen....