Online Dating Sites - Watch out!

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#1 Aug 12 - 3PM
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Online Dating Sites - Watch out!

Ok girls, brace yourself... It has come to my attention that my ex is on EHarmony. This is his profile:

Patrick, Atlanta - Georgia.
Occupation: Systems Architect
Age: 36
Height: 5' 11"
Ethnicity: White, non-Hispanic
Match Delivered: July 12, 2009
Match Prefers: Guided Communication
Religion: Christian [RIIIIGGGGGHHHTTT!!!!]
Want Kids: Maybe [HE WANTS THE OPTION]
Drinks: About once a week [RIGGGHT, HOW ABOUT 3 - 4 BOTTLES A DAY?]
Smokes: A few times a year [SURE]

The one thing Patrick is most passionate about:

I'm passionate about learning and experiencing as much as I can while being on this planet. Sights, smells, people's cultures and understanding (or the lack thereof) is what makes this world so great. I believe we can learn a lot from each other by simply asking. I've spent the last three years traveling around the world for my work before moving here to Hotlanta. So basically, I'm the new kid in town. Moved to Atlanta about 8 months ago from Holland, where I'm from. Diving gives me freedom to explore a world that we often take for granted and can be incredibly challenging. Physical fitness, is something that we all need to do;-)

The three things which Patrick is most thankful for:

My personal resilience.

Love and attention from my family.

Love and attention from my friends.

The most influential person in Patrick's life has been:

There is no one person specific, I can be inspired by anyone that exerts positive influence and that can make people feel good about themselves.

Patrick's friends describe him as:

Ambitious
Hard Working
Intelligent
Outgoing

Three of Patrick's best life-skills are:

Continuing to expand my knowledge and awareness
Finding and taking on challenging activities
Achieving personal goals

The most important thing Patrick is looking for in a person is:

Sense of humor, someone that I can laugh with and who can handle a practical joke from time to time. The rest we'll figure out later.

The first thing you'll probably notice about Patrick when you meet him:

Wit and charm!!!

The one thing Patrick wishes MORE people would notice about him is:

My smelly feet....j/k

Patrick typically spends his leisure time:

Exercising, diving and taking trips (i do that a lot);-)

The things Patrick can't live without are:

Food
You
Happy people
Sunshine
My Porsche

The last book Patrick read and enjoyed:

Geez...I love reading, too many to list. I love big books with pictures.

One thing that only Patrick's best friends know is:

I was the one who did it.....there I admit it.

Some additional information Patrick wanted you to know is:

What am I looking for??? I enjoy someone that is intelligent, an extrovert and has ambition, these are all big turn-ons for me. Of course wit and sarcasm will get you pretty far as well. Someone that can enjoy a night on the town and then have a nice peaceful evening on the couch after making dinner together. Another big plus for me is someone that has traveled, we can swap interesting stories:-)

READ MY BLOG (sadlynomore.blogspot.com) if you want a glimpse of who he truely is... This guy is BAD NEWS - don't touch him with a bargepole unless you really want to get hurt! He's passionate allright, passionate about chasing (and doing) every skirt he sees, drinking and drugging himself to oblivion. As for physical fitness, you'll find his oversized fuel tank quite imposing. If you want to see what he looks like to make sure you stay away all you need to to is go to my blog, analyse the tags and use your imagination to guess his myspace profile, picasaweb photo album and to look for his youtube videos... Caution: for most of his online profiles he still uses photos from 8 years back when he was young, fit and physically appealing. All he's got left is probably charm and a heavily balding head, but still girls fall for him.

Aug 22 - 9PM
James (not verified)
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Still thinking about online dating?

http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2007/12/still-think-online-dating-is-ok-read.html http://james-personalitydisorder.blogspot.com/
Aug 19 - 7AM
James (not verified)
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On line dating infor.

http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/2009/08/online-dating-online-prostitution-cause.html
Aug 16 - 3PM
James (not verified)
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Sooooo many

Here is a good site for the cons and liars looking for new prey and a free lunch. http://www.peepsheet.com/search/viewsheet.aspx?sheetid=86pAHvLyZqZjCwwplOEybe3SCuUvKSqh
Aug 15 - 10AM
Beachcolors
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My N

Hey guys....this is an ad my N put on craigslist back in April. Someone saw it with his picture and sent it to me. Apparently all you need to attract him is a pulse and a pu**y! ______________________________________________________________ Going to the Gulf - 44 (Warrior) Reply to: [email protected] [Errors when replying to ads?]Date: 2009-04-15, 10:43PM EDT I am going to the Gulf of Mexico next week(4-21-4-26). I would like a women between the ages of 18 and 50 to go w/me. Everything is paid for. You can lounge be the pool whatever I would just like some company... Mark ______________________________________________________________ AND HERE IS HIS CURRENT YAHOO PROFILE....."fun guy" my ass! "Love to travel", he hasn't been outside the Florida panhandle! ______________________________________________________________ Mark “Fun guy looking for fun girl” 44 years old | Warrior, AL Active in the last 24 hours! Man seeking woman Mark His Ideal Woman Ethnicity Caucasian (white) Asian, Caucasian (white), East Indian, Hispanic/Latino, Middle Eastern, Inter-racial "Me and My Ideal Match" I love to travel. I have achieved alot of goals in my life. Friends say I am funny. I am fun to be around. I would like to find a women over 35 for fun and friendship. Who knows what can happen. I am looking for a friend that is excited about life and the future. Lets take this adventure together...
Aug 15 - 4PM (Reply to #18)
Barbara (not verified)
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Beachcolors

www.matchinform.com www.truedater.com www.playerblock.com Go for it! BTW - here's my 'dating profile' template for all these losers: Narc/ Psychopath/ Loser Completely pathological cretin looking for trusting female 30-60 years old | Entire World Active all the time - constantly trolling for prey! Pathological seeking woman Pathological: His Ideal Woman breathing "Me and My Ideal Match" Someone with a great personality and self-esteem that I can dismantle piece by piece. Easily hurt because I get off on hurting people. Will have sex with me 24/7 and believe every line of B.S. that comes out of my mouth. Slave who will never question me, ask for emotions and will be happy to let me bang other targets whenever I feel like it, without question. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily "Some women can fake an orgasm. But some men can fake an entire relationship!" - Sharon Stone
Aug 16 - 6PM (Reply to #21)
grossot
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profile

That is freakin' hallarious Barbara! nolongercontrolled
Aug 15 - 5PM (Reply to #19)
Beachcolors
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Wow...where do I sign up?

Barbara......you are exactly right. That is the exact summary of the N's true dating website motive. Any women with a pulse and the more broken down the better. After learing more about the women in my N's life it's clear that he prefered to target women who (in his twisted mind) "had few options". He loves women with children because he thinks they are looking for a replacement father. He also loved women with drug/alcohol problems. He has been with MANY of those. I think he picks girls who are overweight also. It is a very common theme for him. The others say he always used it against them and put them down for it constantly. He never did that to me but Im sure it was coming. He dates A LOT of nurses and social workers but in his 45 years only a handful of ladies have stuck around for longer than a few months. Me and his first wife both went 12 months from day one to no contact...2nd fiance lasted 5 years...and wife #2 was a total of 7 years but the first time she left him it was only 10 months. The rest of their marriage was back and forth. She stayed marrried for the insurance (so she claims).
Aug 15 - 9PM (Reply to #20)
Barbara (not verified)
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Beachcolors

He's a CLASSIC PREDATOR: http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com/2006/10/why-abuse-survivors-attract-wrong-sort.html I am going to put a post here on Lisa's blog tonight about WHO GETS TARGETED You'd be well to get a copy of WOMEN WHO LOVE PSYCHOPATHS (it covers Narcs too). You'd be astounded. ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily "Some women can fake an orgasm. But some men can fake an entire relationship!" - Sharon Stone
Aug 12 - 8PM
dolce (not verified)
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wow!

Wow! I guess Patrick likes love and attention! lol ...and he likes big books with pictures?! LOL How old is he? Four!? LOLOLOL Thanks for the warning and the laugh. geez..lol
Aug 12 - 7PM
James (not verified)
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My Space

Found him Jane but.. This profile is set to private. This user must add you as a friend to see his/her profile. Think I bypass the friend request...LOL... Here is mine ex, but I make it a little easier. http://www.myspace.com/174444580 Details of profiler Status: In a Relationship : (never been alone) Here for: Friends : (for supply only) Orientation: Straight : (unless she needs a place to stay) Hometown: Lombard IL. :(True) Body type: 5' 7" / Slim / Slender :(not the last time I saw her) Ethnicity: White / Caucasian :(True) Zodiac Sign: Cancer :(True) Smoke / Drink: Yes / Yes : (didn’t smoke when she was with me/yes she does drink so watch out guys) Children: Proud parent :(maybe she is but her children want nothing to do with her so I not sure how she can be proud) Education: Some college : (Lie) Occupation: Shipping/Receiving :(Yes worked at Fedex and got bruises from her job and then told her family and new bf I beat her)
Aug 12 - 6PM
James (not verified)
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Thanks Jane

Thanks Jane for exposing this creep, God only know how many unexpected ladies you might have help by doing so!! Thanks!! http://james-personalitydisorder.blogspot.com/
Aug 12 - 4PM
Marie
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Jane

Funny stuff! Thanks much for sharing. Makes me curious to look at my Ns Match.com profile have been busy and honestly putting it off, I don't want to know anything about him any longer. I have a pretty good idea what he'll put and last I saw him he's been dropping the pounds. That won't last he did the same when he first started coming around to court me. Had he stayed looking the way he did the very first time I met him years back I would never have given him the time of day. The judgment I passed on him back then I should have stuck to because it was right on the money. Mine is just like yours. Chasing as many skirts and doing as many as possible but will deny this to his death bed. Not sure if he's a drinker though I know he abuses medications (painkillers). He smokes too not that it's a big point but he also lies about it. Can't even tell the truth about the simplest thing, incredible. I bet he doesn't have a picture, he didn't on his Facebook. He'll tell you he thinks he looks in his mid 30s. HA! I thought he was closer to 50 and was floored to find out he was 3 years younger than me. He once asked what a 19 year old could possibly see in a guy in his early 40s. I replied: if he was rich, his money, she was too young to know better, or the 40 something was another delusional male charmed by a 19 yr old who thought she should be nice to the old creepy fart.
Aug 12 - 3PM
Barbara (not verified)
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Online Dating is a HUGE NO-NO

Even Herb Vest, CEO of True.com admits that 3/4 of the people on his site LIE on their profiles and many are criminals, married or disordered. Online these people LIE LIE LIE They want free sex and will LIE and tell you they 'love you' and 'you are the one' as long as they still want to f**k you. Gotta laugh with Patrick's 'Can't Live Without: You" GAG!! Psycho-Boy's online ads for casual sex, when it asked "what sort of person are you looking for?" It was: "ANYONE FOR ANYTHING" - typical Sexual Psychopath. Didn't care about them as a person as long as they were breathing, warm and had a vagina. I was horrified. (at least he was honest that all he wanted was free & no-strings sex... he just didn't care with who or what he had to do/ say to get it!) Here's 2 of the profiles he was unable to erase (and claim it 'never happened' lol) under his old nickname: http://Eroticy.com/MySexetera/Profile/ViewProfile.asp?ID=282692 http://Eroticy.com/MySexetera/Profile/ViewProfile.asp?ID=221863 Jane - post links to your blog on all these sites about him. CONTINUE TO GET THE WORD OUT: Make sure he doesn't destroy other's lives: http://thedatefromhell.com/yourstory.html http://www.matchinform.com http://www.truedater.com http://www.onlinedatesfromhell.com/ http://www.dateshowcase.com/forum http://www.stoptheact.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily "Some women can fake an orgasm. But some men can fake an entire relationship!" - Sharon Stone
Aug 12 - 3PM (Reply to #2)
Jane (not verified)
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Oh Barbara, he is sooo

Oh Barbara, he is sooo pathetic I couldn't help not to crack up when I read his profile... I haven't replied to his "peace offering" email. Silence is all he is getting. I bet he must be sweating knowing that his career depends on whether or not I click the forward button, landing his mail abuse onto his employer's desk. On a happier note, I have done myself proud last saturday. I did something that I never thought I would have the guts to do. Perform by myself at a wedding. I was about to breakdown in the morning, hearing his voice in my head saying "you can't do it, you're not extrovert enough, you're not talented enough"... At that point I said to myself that I couldn't afford to breakdown, that I must stay focused and all day long I repeated to myself nothing but positive affirmations. The gig went by like a breeze, not one even one hitch! The crowd loved it, and was clapping constantly. I even did my own last minute sewing on the costume! All by myself, no help from anyone. Would it be too narcissistic to say that I am dead proud of my achievement? Jane http://sadlynomore.blogspot.com
Aug 12 - 4PM (Reply to #6)
Scoop
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JANE is in da house !!well

JANE is in da house !!well done !, its so good you did this , i also performed for the fist time this weekend , i was so scared but i did it and it was brilliant .High five sister . Peru xx
Aug 12 - 4PM (Reply to #12)
Marie
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Peru

You go girl! I'm happy to hear this.
Aug 12 - 4PM (Reply to #7)
Jane (not verified)
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Well done Peru!!!! Yay!!

Well done Peru!!!! Yay!! These loosers can kiss our a$$*$! I have performed as part of a group before, but never on my own. It feels soooooo good to have a piece of me back and more! If anything good has come out of this nightmare, it is this can do/will do/no buts attitude. Jane http://sadlynomore.blogspot.com
Aug 12 - 5PM (Reply to #8)
Marie
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I was angry but now feel inspired!

Thanks ladies. I was feeling pissed off earlier. Angry because he totally messed up my life and it's taken me a year to get things back. That he's just going to move on with his life as if nothing happened and get off free just got to me today. I can't even think of trying to be in a relationship with someone because I'm just so fed up. I will vent on another post though. I did have something exciting happen to me as far as work. A design I made will be printed on a cover and I will get paid extra for it. This is a big step for me which I hope will lead to more. All my hard work these last few months has been paying off.
Aug 12 - 5PM (Reply to #9)
April (not verified)
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Good for you Marie. I am

Good for you Marie. I am still trying to get back on track and it has been almost a year for me as well. I am desperately trying to build a new life and I just can't seem to get the ball rolling. I know I will get there. I am not greiving him AT ALL. IN fact, I feel a bit flat where he is concerned, except for the occassional feelings of anger. I know that when I get rebuilt, I will be much stronger than before. As for now, it still alludes me.
Aug 13 - 12AM (Reply to #11)
Marie
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April

It takes time. I've been so overwhelmed this last year just trying to get my life in order. To stop paying bills late, to pick up things around the house and in the yard. There were days I could just keep going then there were days I didn't want to do anything but cry. I no longer grieve for him, I feel nothing but sometimes anger. You will find your way. Everyday pick somehing else to do, work at or try. Something you've been putting off for a long time. Start with little things, in time they add up. Good luck!
Aug 12 - 6PM (Reply to #10)
Barbara (not verified)
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Marie

took me longer than a year and therapy, in-patient clinic for PTSD, medication and more therapy... (a couple ER visits too) so you are doing well! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily "Some women can fake an orgasm. But some men can fake an entire relationship!" - Sharon Stone
Aug 12 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
Barbara (not verified)
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not narcissistic at all - I

not narcissistic at all - I think Lisa has an entry under MY BLOG on Healthy vs. Unhealthy Narcissism You are showing HEALTHY NARCISSISM. Get the word out about that predator. And let him sweat. SILENCE will kill him. Peace offering? He was full of S**t! ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily "Some women can fake an orgasm. But some men can fake an entire relationship!" - Sharon Stone
Aug 19 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
courtneyj
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Funny this topic was posted today

I was thinking about my ex-narc and wondering if he actually did a 180 after screwing me over, by cheating, online dating ect. I know in the back of my mind he hasnt. His new girl is a stay at home mom who does nothing but cater to him, just like his ex did and he cheated on her. I was opposite, independent, career oriented, athletic, loving, affectionate and loved to have fun!! He claimed to love those qualities about me. I was according to him, "THE LOVE OF HIS LIFE." That statement now makes me laugh. A large part of me understands that narcs lack a central core. They dont know themselves thus leaves them having no guilt for their actions and they can do no wrong. This concept is hard to grasp. I just am shocked that people like this exsist. I found my asking the question the other day, why would he join three dating websites, before and during our engagement? He looked me in the eye while having sex becasue thats what it came down too, countless times and said he loved me and would never hurt me. www.true.com www.adultfriendfinder.com jammin2008 profile www.millionairematch.com All the profiles were complete bullshit. Except on adult friend finder, in addition to hanging with friends, of which he has none, (they were all my friends we hung with) he said he is not going to change for anyone, he was damn right in that statement. I am not questioning myself or self-esteem. I am just still so shocked this happened. After dating me for four years, being engaged as well, within three days at the end of march he is moved in with a new woman with two kids, has completely forgotten about his own kids. He buying a house that she will live in. I just cant believe what this man did to me. TO think in January I miscarried a child with him, he knew about it and was screwing around on me the whole time. It makes me sick to think of what I went through becasue I listened to man lie to me and family about the love he had for me. Thanks for listening
Aug 19 - 3PM (Reply to #5)
Barbara (not verified)
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courtneyj

Time to drop a dime on the narc: http://thedatefromhell.com/yourstory.html http://www.matchinform.com http://www.truedater.com http://www.onlinedatesfromhell.com/ http://www.dateshowcase.com/forum http://www.stoptheact.com ~~~~~~~~~~~~ CLICK HERE: Articles & information for abuse victims - Updated Daily "Some women can fake an orgasm. But some men can fake an entire relationship!" - Sharon Stone