trininickb's story

I have just researched Narcissism, and all the information I’ve gathered is disturbing. I discovered it from my wife insisting that we see a physiologist about her unhappiness in the marriage, but she lied throw out the whole session. I started to see the psychologist individually on my own, to see whether if I’m doing something wrong in the married or not, but he assured me with his assessment of my wife, she as Narcissism. He notices she was lying about everything to make herself seem like the victim in only 3 sessions with her.

As I gather my own information about Narcissism the more I’ve learned the more hurt I’ve become (depressed, hurt and betrayed). my wife hasn’t spoken to me for 3 weeks cause she assume the phone calls from a male friend , whose cell phone is under his wife’s name is a girlfriend of mine, and time, time again I’ve assured her it’s my friend Brian.

Because I’ve stood up to her and let her know for the 1000th time in 3 years I’m not cheating, her paranoia is getting the better of her. I really do love her, she’s has been through a lot as a child and as an adult with her ex-husband cheating on her, but I thought I was given her the love that she needs to get through it, only to find out my effort didn’t mean nothing to her.

And it is hurting me right now. The woman I love is out there lying to her family, friends, and I have done nothing wrong, but love her.