Is my female ex a narc or something else? Confusing traits.
I had a girlfriend before from church. When we dated I quickly sensed there was something wrong. There was just no real connection and emotional tension was building up. It seemed like she only cared about maintaining her "fan club" while mistreating me. The worst relationship I had - even though certain leaders didn't believe me when I said that. The first time she visited, she threw my dishcloth on the floor to mop something up. She used my bathroom stuff without asking. She didn't (want to) respect a "no". Small things but signs of disrespect.