my narcisstic wife
my narcisstic wife
I am a 30 years old man living in the middleeast. I am highly lovable, outgoing sociable and empathetic to the bone. Unfourtunatly I was married the traditional way(arranged marriage).The traumatized child I got married to was 25 years old.
The reason I said tramutized because she was just that. Her parents gave her away when she was only 8-months old.The new caretaker was her maternal grandmother who lived in a different city.she was the first born , she has 7 other siblings who lived with the parents.She only got reunited with her parents and siblings at the age of 18.througout our engagment and now 6 months of marriage , she always struck me as being, distant, slef-centered, self-entitled,grandoise, controlling
she gets into rage when her demands get rejected. I am romantic and altruistic by nature, but I do have a high sense of self-esteem, and a high sense of right and wrong.She refuses to get engaged in any serious discussions. she hates it when I try to voice an opinion. she rarely ask about other people welfares, she is asocial.she is terminally bored, and like to be thrilled. she does seem sadistic in bed; she tries to sexaully frustrte me by conscoiusly distracting me while we are having an intercourse.
Having read the online articles about the possible causes of the narcisstic disorder
and knowing the circumstances in which my wife was raised in ,I am convinced of the fact that my wife developed this primitive defences as a way of protecting herself of the trauma that was caused by the abandoment of her parents.
This abandoment made her feel at unconscious level that she is worthless, flawed, unloved. It was a poingnat journey for this child. But i cant help but divorce her to regain my sanity
my narcissistic wife
Sounds like she just needs
I'm so sorry to hear about