Was my ex a narc??

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#1 Mar 13 - 4PM
Snowbunny
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Was my ex a narc??

My ex just dumped me a few weeks ago. He said he wanted some space to figure out what he wanted (we had been planning on marriage for a long time)but he said now he was scared and despite being the one who came on strong saying I was his dream girl, now I'm the one who forced everything down his throat. He had been married before and it did not end well. I agreed to give him some space and by the next week found out he's seeing a girl at work. He always had major issues with his ego. He was short and had an obession with being good in bed. I gave him so much reassurance and made him feel good about himself. I noticed over a few months he started being distant with me. He seemed to feel he was becoming popular at work and well liked and would often come home bragging about accomplishments. It's like the people at work were more important. What concerned me was his aggressiveness at work. He works in the ED and would brag about being rough with patients who were difficult or getting to escort them out and made fun of them and such. He was never abusive to me, but he did critize me a lot over stupid things but in a sarcastic way. (You're such a slob, you can't put the toilet paper on right, etc) alot of this sounds like a narc, but are they able to admit that they don't feel good about themselves because he had told me that he needs people to do that for him.

Mar 13 - 10PM
TheBird
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It sounds like...

Mar 13 - 10PM (Reply to #12)
Snowbunny
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I like that illustration,

Mar 13 - 9PM
Deestarr
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sorry

Mar 13 - 9PM (Reply to #10)
Snowbunny
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Thanks. I am finding comfort

Mar 13 - 9PM
Deidre40
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Something I learned over the

Mar 13 - 9PM (Reply to #8)
Snowbunny
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Thank you for the

Mar 13 - 8PM
janemarie
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You have got to read Lisa's

Mar 13 - 9PM (Reply to #5)
Snowbunny
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I am thankful we didn't

Mar 13 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
janemarie
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Hes getting what he needs

Mar 13 - 7PM
onwithmylife
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i do

Mar 13 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
Snowbunny
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Yeah, he's a jerk for sure.

Mar 13 - 8PM (Reply to #3)
onwithmylife
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snowbunny