Forgive me if I'm being a pain with all my questions, but now that I'm pretty darn close to being completely over all this crap...I have some unusual questions. lol
So here goes.
I told you all about people who were mutual friends of ours. I have let most of them go. There's two left. The one...ugh. I don't want to get into details, but suffice to say, I don't trust this girl anymore. Not a friend. Never was, most likely.
So. My question is...when I completely stop returning calls, and stop reaching out to these women...do you think they (they meaning them and the ex narc) will think it's because of him? It's not. It has more to do with...I don't want mean spirited people in my life anymore. I don't want people who are attracted to darkness (the narc) in my life. They mean me harm, I just feel it in my bones. I feel all these 'friends' ever cared about was gossip...about the narc and me.
So...having shared this now...would you, if you were in my shoes...just abandon these supposed ''friends?'' I think it's time. I know I shouldn't care what any of them think; and I'm working on that! lol Thx for any insights and advice you might have.