The abuse continues, and I can't get it to stop

background:

divorce initiated by me in spring of 2009 after he said 'f*ck you' in front of friends. I had had enough, and had been unhappy for a while. Somehow, having that as an 'example' gave me strength (though I later realized I didn't need an excuse or an example, my unhappiness was reason enough. and 'eff you' was going to be the least of his abuse).

It was finalized in May of 2011, 2+ years after it began. In that time, I started dating someone (well, dated a few someones, but stuck with this one particular person and we are very happy together, my kids adore him, etc)

Come to find out, me leaving was narcissistic injury. Me finding someone else? He can't handle it, and the abuse has escalated.

He pushed me into a wall before the divorce was finalized, and I filed a police report.
I have documented each and every verbally abusive text, email, and even voicemails.
Our decree states that we have to utilize a 'parenting facilitator' on issues we can't agree on, and this has been the perfect arena for him to continue the abuse.

Thing is, she should be stepping in and stopping it. In her office, during our appointments, he has thrown paper at me when her back was turned, made faces while I'm speaking to him (she watches the person speaking, not the person we are speaking TO, so she didn't see this). During our meetings has frequent outbursts where he is disparaging in his comments to me (she tells him 'stop' and 'not another word'). He apologizes, then does it again a few minutes later.

I am at my wit's end as to what I can do. Below are texts and email excerpts from communication over just the past 3 days. I don't respond, I don't initiate, and I don't engage.

But it doesn't stop.

I've asked her REPEATEDLY to make it stop. She tells him 'you need to stop'. She tells us 'you are the most difficult clients I've ever worked with' (and my attorney tells me that she's known for working with the most difficult clients).

I've asked my attorney to step in at this point, and showed him the comments below. His response: talk to your parenting facilitator. I HAVE. I DO. IT DOESN'T STOP.

I'm getting the run-around from the court system and I am TIRED.

If anyone has advice or experience to share, I would LOVE to hear it.

September 6:
"Man are you stupid - stop eating so much jizz."

September 7:
"if you were human as opposed to being a spoiled , angry , venal brat , you'd act differently. Incidentally - looks like your complexion is clearing up."

"Your pathetic."

"Your an idiot.
Have a nice life - God help our kids."

"God...your pathetic."

"Your pretty naive."

"Are you listening ? You can go straight to hell you fucked up , immature , bitch. You are easily the biggest piece of shit I've encountered."

September 8:
(in front of the kids) "Stop being an asshole"