And I'm unsure how to handle everything. Should I return the gift?? Or just don't even acknowledge it?? I'd LOVE to have NC, but I'm not sure if there is any point to it since it looks like it is not what he and his counselor have planned. I don't want to talk to him again but I don't think it matters what I want.
Please let me know what you think about the email below. I'd love thoughts. In it, he seems so normal, but I really don't care. I just want him to go away. (The transferring of the money was just him sending an email that he would like his 1/2 of the savings and me sending it to him).
It was nice seeing you today. I am glad you liked the valentines gift.
Sorry you have not heard from me in the last week. But you probably won't hear from me this week or the next either. The Bar Exam is too high risk/reward for me to get distracted with our emotionally charged situation.
I wanted to say I appreciate you transferring the money for my hotel so easily last week. I thought it was going to be a hassle, you pleasantly suprised me!
After the next two weeks, I do want to discuss where we are trying to head with this marriage. My counselor has given me some tools that may help get the conversation started. Look forard to speaking with you in a few weeks.