All Good Things about NC- No Contact-- it will come to those who stay the course.
All Good Things about NC- No Contact-- it will come to those who stay the course.
I was taking a walk today and just enjoying the day. Along the way I started to think about all the good things that have happened over the last several months-- none of which would have been possible had I not gone No Contact 15 months ago.
I thought it would be a good exercise to list all the good things we gain from NC. I'll start. Please feel free to add to the list.
1. I never have to listen to his BS -- ever again.
2. I do not have to think about what is going on in HIS head all the time.
3. I do not have to wonder why he does not call or text
4. I do not have to wonder where he is and who he is with when not with me. I do not need to think about him with his OW.
5. I do not have to be the "ladder for his life" anymore. He can no longer count on me to do all his crap for him
6. My life is MY life. I have so much energy now to use on ME
7. I am no longer enabling him. I am no longer his supply.
8. I am no longer denying the truth to myself when my gut was telling me all the time lies, lies and more lies..
9. I no longer hate myself for allowing him to lie, manipulate and abuse me.
10. I am no longer waiting for validation that will not come.
11. I have kicked my addiction to this unworthy slime!
12. When I wake up in the morning, I no longer think about him. I get up and start my day, and get sooooo much done.
13. I am no longer sad, lonely and waiting for him to give me attention.
14. I am no longer anxiety ridden, afraid to critisize him, waiting for the next d&d and silent treatment.
15. I am free of him at last!!
16. I feel SO strong and so totally in control!
Stick it out and you WILL eventually feel all these things.
All Good Things about NC
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How boring he was
mine..
Asking too many questions
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A thousand million miracles happen every day
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Silence is our BIGGEST ally....
No more routine sex
Love it! I'm with you!
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No Mas!
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"Soldier, don't confuse your rank with MY authority!"
no more
"I can cook with meat"
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OMG Wholeagain...
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"Soldier, don't confuse your rank with MY authority!"