Big Hoover Day

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#1 May 24 - 12PM
BtrflyGrl
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Big Hoover Day

Hi All,

It's been about 45 days NC for me. Nothing on his part, except his visits to neighbor and nothing on my part. This is what I got at 12:04 am last night (All text). I don't know if he is aware that I'm off work or not but I do normally get up around 5am so first of all RUDE!

ExN: Still Vindictive?

Me: No response but start thinking....Me Vindictive? What the hell did I do. Why are you trying to start of a conversation with me an insult? Oh yeah, to provoke a respone. Oh I wanted to say something but I thought to my self Contact=Pain / NC=Fuck You

Ten minutes later.

ExN: I have done my best to give you space and distance.

Me: No response but now I'm starting to get angry and really want to say something. I'm thinking...WTF you are giving me space and distance? You dumped me like a fucking hot potatoe. Why would you be giving ME space and distance. And a whole other slew of things were going threw my head. So I say over and over in my head NC=FUCK YOU.

10 hours later.

ExN: Bye

Me: No response, ran here. So he goes back to being rude again all in three text messages he does the whole D&D thing. I'm thinking he's trying to elicite a response just so he can see if he can find a crack in the door. Right? First be mean...oh that'll fire her up. Then play the pity party...oh maybe she'll bite. Then Dismiss me again because I didn't play.

Is he trying to warn me that he's done doing me the great favor of leaving me alone and that now he's going to start making his presence known? Do I care? I feel like he's saying that now he is going to re-nig (of course he will) on his word to stay away from me. (I promise I won't stalk you or your mom when going out or running errands). Is he just trying to spool me up? Do I care? Ugh! What a loser.

Let me tell you. I've had a rough couple of days and was so very tempted to text him back. But I didn't. I didn't I didn't. I just delted the thread and ran here.

Thanks for listening.

BtrflyGrl

May 25 - 2AM
abreva
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Such a typical cycle.

May 24 - 11PM
TarHeelBlue
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I'm SO PROUD of you!

May 24 - 1PM
Deidre99
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guess trouble in paradise

May 24 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
BtrflyGrl
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Thanks Diedre

May 24 - 2PM (Reply to #10)
Deidre99
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haha yes, it's mind

May 24 - 12PM
spinning
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You got it, Btrfly!

spinning

May 24 - 1PM (Reply to #7)
BtrflyGrl
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Thank you all for responding

May 24 - 12PM
Grymel
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Job well Done!!!

May 24 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
BtrflyGrl
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Right! Getting my attention

May 24 - 12PM (Reply to #5)
lessonlearned
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who cares?

May 24 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
Grymel
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I think he was running low on supply...

May 24 - 12PM
Rising Dawn
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Good for you