Can 2 N's be in a relationship ??
Can 2 N's be in a relationship ??
Thanks for the the encouragement from these posts. It has helped alot !!
My guy left last Friday. Packed up and left while I Was sleeping. This was after he got mad at me for letting my son taste his protein drink. Yelled at me and told me I was trying to undermine him and that I did not respectr him at all. He had told me that he did not want my son to drink it and shame on me, I gave me som a taste.
No contact since. We have been together for about 6 years. Things were ok, I thought until about a year ago. This past year he has been flip flopping and lying to me about another girl. The last time I got the whole song and dance that he had to be with her to realize how much he needed me and he cannot imagine his life without me blah blah blah.
Well, I have been having a rough time since he left. His whole family thinks he is crazy as does mine. His daughter even sent me an email asking if she could still come and see me cuz she is done with him and she does not want the bullsh*t her father does and did to ruin our relationship. Really brought tears to my eyes.
And after reading all of these posts, I do know that I did not stand a chance against him and his games. Only thing I am having an issue with and I know I shouldn’t be, is who he left me for. She is a convicted felon, cocaine user, compulsive liar (we have busted her out SO many times), lost her kids to state but got them back(he does not like her children and 3 out of the 4 do not like him–he even has a confrontation with one of them)she lives in public housing, is on welfare, is still married even though she told him she was not and has cheated on him numerous times !! She is a sociopath !! OMG what is the draw ??
Maybe she is an N as well. Can 2 people with mental problems possibly survive in a relationship ?? I know I shouldn't care, but I just want his life to be turned upside down like he has done to me.
Or is a sociopath/compulsive liar a match for an N ??
Thanks for all of you !! <3
What I don't understand is...
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I too thought about this question
Hi teesme...
Thank you : )
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