You know what? After everything they do, can`t we even have a place to talk about this? Screw them! Let them read!
You must be a very sick in the head individual, to get high, by hurting other people. Besides, so much of them are so alike, that sometimes I wonder if they don`t grow in some sort of mind control factory (illuminatti!),lol, and then spread in the world!
This place is about OUR recovery, OUR time. Not them.
yall if you dont have a name that they can associate with you then you probably have nothing to worry about.
These guys are all the same so anyone of us could have written these posts.
My lesson learned too - don't tell the ow, (even if she was D & D) your user name unless you want the exN to see your stuff. I talked to her and told here about this website and actually hope it may someday help here when she gets honest with herself being Narcissistic Supply. (secondary now). She must have told the exN who has since read my posts and is upset. I am glad he did. I don't care how he feels for once and I am not the least bit afraid of that little man, but I DO NOT recommend the exN knowing. They may underhandedly retaliate.
I make sure what I write is the
A) The truth backed up w/ actions, emails and examples (kept in my old journal)
B) Leave out the names of people or places that can come back to haunt me legally.
C) Hopefully helps others even when full of anger or sadness.
That is so true. I have had moments of panic more than a few times thinking that someone is talking about my ex. lol!
I guess that is how I know that he really is a narc.
Besides with my ex, he doesnt have the problem I do...so there would be no need for him to come to this site.
I just worried about google and my email linking me to this site. But I googled my email address and the only thing that popped up was my etsy account :)
HOw did you discover this? I googled my email address and it didnt come up. I think they would have to know your user name right?
This is the main reason I post my story and personal info only in pm.
They would have to google dazedandcnonfused to find your posts, and still wouldnt necessarily know it was you. Without googling your username you are safe.
Because of the Led Zep connection with your name you are extra safe, I tried googling you and it aint gonna happen. Stay safe.
ds
Lisa is working full time and may not have time to do it. What you need to do is to put the links to the posts you want removed in a PM to a moderator. Otherwise if the issue is your name, you can also change that through a moderator and all your previous posts will now have the new name.
can you give an example about how it appears on google?
that freaks me out...how did it come up- what did you google?
and Goldie- is there an easy way to look back at my old posts or do I literally have to just look back page by page?
thanks!
To the posts which you want removed. You may try to search for them and some of them may come up, the only thing with search is that it does not bring up all of your posts and it also brings up other posts with similar search criteria.
God bless,
Goldie
About 2 weeks ago. I happened to google my previous user name ( had a moderator change it for me since then) and all of my postings came up. I panicked because my exN knows that I used that username alot. Stupid me for not thinking about that beforehand. I had a moderator change my username and sent her links to the posts that I wanted deleted. Now if I search on my old username it just comes up as a broken link.
Contact a mod and they'll take care of it!
Good luck
Monique
You know what? After
yall if you dont have a name
My ExN Knows - DONT TELL THE OW YOUR USERNAME
gettin better
HOw did you discover this? I
They would have to google
contact Lisa or one of the
One of the moderators would be best
can you give an example about how it appears on google?
You will need to provide us with the links
I posted same question