Choices

As responsible and mature adults we all need to take responsibilty for our actions. Along our journey of healing, we will be up against many choices. Some choices, are easier to manage than others.

We have learned here that the ONLY way to begin to heal from the trauma of a narcissitic relationship is to fully mainatain NO CONTACT. Unfortunately, for those of you who share children or financial obligations, it is more difficult and LC is highly recommended as well as a third pary negotiator if necessary.

My point though, is we do have a choice. We know what happens if we break No Contact. We have read it here on the forum repeatedly, as well as have felt the horrible repuccsions, if we have done so ourselves.

We have learned tools to help us avoid the temptation. Blocking all forms of contact: Facebook, twitter, e-mail, cell phone, landline, sometimes friends and even family.

There is never any reason to respond to a vm, e-mail or text from a number or address you don't recognize. Today's advanced technology allows us the luxury of knowing who the sender is; if it is not identified, it is NOT important. If you respond, you are choosing to accept a Hoover.

The choice is all ours!

Think about it!
Stay true to you!

Janie