Completely dumped for the 4th...

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#1 Jul 2 - 2PM

rhiannon

Completely dumped for the 4th...

So... my N decided to tell me last minute that he's going to Vegas for the 4th. He packed his crap this morning and left. So, I packed up my stuff and am retreating to my apartment. I am just floored with the complete disregard of my feelings (although, I shouldn't be surprised, I suppose). I've turned down invitations left and right in the anticipation of us hanging out this weekend. Now I have none. And HE DOESN'T CARE. Oh, yeah... and this is a "business trip," btw. He's going to "make money." That's why I wasn't invited. Bullshit. I am so pissed. If I pulled this crap, he would have a MAJOR problem with it.

Now, what I need to do is STAY at my apartment. For good. I am going to do my damndest to not call him and not answer when he calls. Send me strength!

#2 Jul 2 - 10PM

baddream

Gamble

He's off to Vegas and the one thing he bets on is that you will still be there when he gets back. What a surprise when you are not there! Your silence will be louder than any words you could send his way. Make sure you have taken everything out of his place and don't look back. If you feel you must explain, just leave a little note that says "good bye". Then GO. Get rid of this loser for good!

#3 Jul 2 - 3PM

helldweller

Fourth of July

Last minute leaving, leaving us with nowhere to go, us turning down other invites just to be dumped, the Vegas trips: ugh, ugh, ugh. Go back to your own life and screw his ass. Mine stopped talking to me three days ago, and I know it was so he wouldn't have to take me with him this weekend wherever he's going. Well, this time I'm not going to be here for him to leave. I'm outta here right now. Don't come back!

#4 Jul 2 - 3PM

rhiannon

Thanks so much for all your

Thanks so much for all your support! It means so much...

#5 Jul 2 - 3PM

NinjaGirl

I normally don't wish ill upon people

But I wouldn't mind it if he were mugged in Vegas. City of Sin and all that!

#6 Jul 2 - 3PM

Steph

Sending you lots and lots of

Sending you lots and lots of strength. You can do this. Take agnesmurphey17's advice and get the remainder of your stuff, send one last text, then change your number. YOU get to be the one to say NO MORE. How empowering! ps. don't forget your bag of M&M's in the freezer at his place

#7 Jul 2 - 3PM (Reply to #9)

rhiannon

LOL. I am definitely taking

LOL. I am definitely taking my M&M's ;)

#8 Jul 2 - 4PM (Reply to #10)

better off

LOL, when first I read that

LOL, when first I read that I thought you meant you were "taking" M&M's like medicine... Don't forget to take your M&M's, girls!

#9 Jul 2 - 3PM

herlatestvictim

Good Luck!

Don't contact him FOR YOU so that you can move on. There is nothing you can say or do that is going to make him come to his senses and realize that he is losing a good woman. He is not going to be sorry and he will do it again. The best thing you can do is NOTHING. Say nothing, do nothing. Why tell him how you feel, he won't comfort you. He won't be sorry. DO NOTHING. He expects you to do everything else. He will not expect you to find your dignity and pride. He will not expect you to draw the line and REJECT him. Do nothing, be still. MOST IMPORTANTLY, REMEMBER THAT THE GOOD TIMES ARE GONE. NARCS SHOW US A GREAT TIME IN THE BEGINNING... BUT ONCE THE BAD TIMES COME, IT'S OVER. IT'S A GAME AFTER THAT.

#10 Jul 2 - 3PM

querida

wow, what a great chance to

wow, what a great chance to start fresh! Get your stuff, girl, and get outta there! I concur with all the other posters... take this opportunity to get out and start again

#11 Jul 2 - 3PM

agnesmurphy17

Perfect Oppportunity

Now you have a few days peace. Plan your escape. Get everything of your's from him & his place. No excuse for contact. Go change all your e-mail accounts. Get a new phone number. Before going NC, send him a text: "It's over between us. Never contact me again." Then go NC. Actually, that's exactly how a N would do it. So, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. If he tries to contact you thereafter, ignore him. If he comes to your apartment, get a restraining order. You can do this! And, you would have the satisfaction of having roundly dumped him!

#12 Jul 2 - 2PM

rainbow1

Good luck! You can do it!

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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"

#13 Jul 2 - 2PM (Reply to #2)

Lisa E. Scott

Rhiannon

You're better off without him. Time to break free of him! xoxo

#14 Jul 2 - 4PM (Reply to #3)

MovinOnUp

Independence Day

What better weekend could there be to break away and establish your independence and freedom! If he left before me, I'd be tempted to bag the email and tape a note to that scale of his. I've weighed the postives and negatives of our relationship and have come to the conclusion that the negatives are seriously overweight and will NEVER be thin enough for me. Have A Nice Life. Good luck getting untangled! Stay strong!

#15 Jul 2 - 8PM (Reply to #4)

rhiannon

Your reply left me with a

Your reply left me with a smile on my face. Thanks! (I like that note taped to the scale idea)...

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