Crap you've done in the past year. (AKA-Reasons why I am leaving your sorry ASS).

Just for therapy... I am writing this as though I am talking to him. Feel free to comment or give advice.

1. Once again, you have cheated on me. When we got back together I told you plain and clear that if I even had one suspicion that you were cheating.. I was out! Well in October I found two condoms were missing out of 10. Condoms that if you were a smart man you would have thrown away after we got back together since you had a vasectomy in 2000 and we don't even use them. But no, you kept them, and then when you realized I had counted them, and KNEW there were two missing from you "stash" you expected me to believe that you accidentally threw them away. Yea, uh huh. There were 5 sets of two (connected) you idiot. So how come when I checked them in October there were 3 sets of two and two that were singles. So not only did you throw them out... accidentally, but you even accidentally tore two of them apart!? uh.. not even a little bit believable to male whore!

2. After having an abdominal hysterectomy in January you gave me the silent treatment three days after I got out of the hospital over MY pain meds! No matter that I was the one in pain, had been in the hospital for 5 days, had 6 weeks of recovery in front of me... it's all about YOU. No support from you... just your concern over me calling in for a second script of pain meds so YOU could have some. You freaking drug addicted SOB! Then you don't speak to me for 3 days and when I talk to my SIL about it, you get even more mad. Just like an abusive person... you expect me to keep it all quiet so no one knows that you are psychologically and emotionally abusing me. You think because it doesn't leave bruising it isn't a problem. Well it IS a problem... and now it won't be MY problem anymore.

3. After 6 years of my inviting you to any and everything I am invited to, you feel that going to YOUR family party and specifically telling me I am NOT invited or included is okay. You're excuse is that your family doesn't like me. Well in 16 years... they hardly know me so I have to ask myself... what exactly is it you tell them about me that they would hate me so much that I am excluded from a party that every other one of your relatives is invited to? Including the "wife beater".. the "cheater", and the "wife that chooses her adult kids over her husband"! Tell me oh wonderful God, how am I such a worse kind of person that you are ashamed to even take me to a family get together... ? Yet I include you in everything I do with my family? Does it make you feel like you are "better than me".? My family hates you... but they tolerate you because they LOVE me more than they dislike you.! But you just keep on trying to make me feel bad about myself by playing "keep away".

Those are the three main reasons I am leaving you. But there are a hundred different ways you diminish me as a person every day...but they main way you do it, is with a simple lack of effort on your part. Until you realize I'm leaving that is!. But I'm onto you, you Narcisistic SOB. I know you now! And this is not the type of marriage I want. EVER AGAIN!