Do N's treat everybody bad?

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#1 May 11 - 9PM
Deestarr
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Do N's treat everybody bad?

I know it may seem like a silly question but my exN has been friends with a girl for 13yeats. I believe 150% that they have never been together.

My ex N used to spend lots of time with her and when we got together they maybe saw each other every couple of weeks. I met her once at the start of our relationship then he kept us apart for a year. The next time we met we both sat down together and got on great. She could never understand why he kept us apart either. He used to tell me that he wanted to spend time with just her cause she destressed him.

I know it sounds like they were together but I honestly don't think they were. She is lovely and we've had many conversations about men and relationships etc

What I don't understand is how can she have been friends with him for that long and not figured him out?? Doesn't make sense to me? It's like he always portrays prince charming and mr nice guy around her..... Is it possible for a N to not discard a female??

I reckon in the long run they'll end up together cause she's the only one that puts up with his crap!

May 12 - 10AM
aceonelady
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My ex N abused his then 15

Aceonelady

May 12 - 8AM
onwithmylife
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deestar

May 12 - 5AM
Used
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deestar

May 11 - 11PM
NarcSurvivor3
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Let me just say..my narc was

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Hunter
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Narcs are users .. Bottom

May 12 - 1AM (Reply to #7)
Celebrity NS
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Users

May 11 - 11PM
NarcSurvivor3
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Can you spell denial? Blind?

May 11 - 11PM
neverlookback
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YES

May 11 - 10PM
uncomfortablynumb
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If he's nice to a female

May 11 - 9PM
rosa_lita
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If they end up together ...

May 12 - 2AM (Reply to #2)
no more an echo
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i got off the crazy train