Do you NARCS ever have a "sensitive side" or is it just an act?
Do you NARCS ever have a "sensitive side" or is it just an act?
Sorry if this has been posted somewhere earlier, but i just have to know, as i was reflecting on this today.
My NARC used to do that whole "rage" thing if i dared to ask him why he had changed in whatever capacity he was changing in THAT week.
He was very "touchy" about the "no sex, no intimacy"issue, and he once told me when i brought it up (with actual tears in his eyes) that "it hurt his feelings when i questioned him about why he was never intimate with me anymore. Over the next few months i heard another excuse in between his rages, and that was "he was going thru a phase" ( I HAD ALREADY guessed by then that the phase he went thru was when he was the man i THOUGHT i met LOL) Anyway, 2 or 3 months passed, and he was still going through his "phase". I very gently brought it up to him, and asked him when he thought that Phase might "pass". Bad idea - rage rage rage, threatened to leave, me crying, doing dishes (which i normally avoid at all costs)then he dropped the subject (like narcs do) and went on to something else. BUT THEN - about an hour later, he approached me and said, "i didn't mean to yell at you honey, but I just don't know why I'm like this" or something like that.
So my question is, (not that it matters cuz he ripped off my parents and is now sitting in jail, and i left him without saying a word)do they EVER have flashes of consciencious? If so this is what i think i was holding onto. and i have to admit, i miss him tonight (god knows why)
He thought he was Leo Tolstoy
THANKS to EVERYONE for the wonderful information
LML
Sensitive? Nope
Sorry but yes it is an act.
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
But dont they think its real themselves?
What was his motive?
Sorta
Mine could cry crocodile tears.
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Helldweller, I share an especially common story with you
LML
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LOL!
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Yes & No
Good - no....... GREAT POINT Bodhi!
LML
Sensitive Side
I needed this....thanks!
LML
monique94550 ~~ thanks again for the link!
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They can sure pretend it
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