Does a True Narcissist Keep Returning for a Long Time?
Does a True Narcissist Keep Returning for a Long Time?
I was living with my guy for 8 years and lived everything in the pages of both books. From the Jekel and Hyde personality, to cheating, punishing and to ignoring me. I told him I was leaving last January. That's when all the pleas of change and how much he loves me happened. His requests for me to stay wasn't working so he changed the lock on our front door and when my kids and I returned home - couldn't get in. When I said to him that he locked us out, he said, "no I changed the locks". I said, "I didn't have a key." Have been out of the house since April 2011. Friends took us in for four months. These friends live right around the corner from my house. I avoided contact because I was angry and couldn't believe the horrible things he did. I remembered it all. He would drive past everyday to see if my car was there. I didn't block his number or change my email. In August 2011 I bought a home for me and my kids. Which he is not allowed near, and he is so bothered by that. Our home is peaceful, it's love, it's happy.
Since last January 2011 to the present he has been wanting to show me change, love and make everything up to me that he says he knows he did in the past. I guess my question is would a true narcissist keep pursuing for so long? I would think if he is not getting the attention he would go back on his computer activities which he had done in the past. Could he realize that he truly did screw up? Lose someone really important in his life?
Some days are difficult. Going from remembering the hurt, to remembering some of the good. Having to change your life from all that time. Also feeling that I was wasting all that love on someone that didn't even feel it. But again, now he says he can't change the past he can only change the future if I give him the chance.
I accessed his e mails and
Does a true Narcissist keep pursuing for a long period?
red flag alarm
red flag alarm - oh yeah
Does a true Narcissist keep pursuing for a long period?
My girlfriends ex showed up
Yes....10 years he told me
My Narc changed the locks on
I'm so sorry Jane
Wow
my exnarc last week broke
They are such
T, dearheart, please read
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Response to dearheart
Dear shock and awe.some - Ns
shock and awe.some, I am not
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Can an N ever change
good girl, shock ... you are
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