EAD46's Story

He's going away, I don't want to answer his calls

Hi - I'm a new member & happy to find support on this site. I'm 49 & have been in a relationship with a man I now know is a Narc for the past 4 mos. i've been reading what is written on this site & so very much of it recently I've  caught him in a web of lies... He is taking a mysterious trip back east (without me,  which I have a very bad gut feeling about, fearing he's being deceitful). He's been secretive about where he's going, what he's doing, etc.

 I feel like he keeps me in the closet & I know he will text me, call
and email me for the entire 10 days he's gone. I see this as *manipulative.

 I don't want him to call ... I just don't want to hear the lies! He lied about this trip in the 1st place, (he says he's visiting his sister's family but his Ex is there & he has lied about his involvement with her in the past). At this point, I don't believe anything he tells me about this trip!!! 
who he will be seeing, what the trip's for, etc.

While he's gone. What I really want to tell him is don't even contact me at all while you're away on your damn secret mystery trip!