Ex contacting me
Ex contacting me
My exh (since August) contacted me today regarding financial stuff. (which was all resolved by our attorneys months ago). Anyway, he called me at work and this is the first time he has called me to talk in awhile, so it was new. i mean obviosly we share things to talk about because we have a child together, but up until this point it has been somewhat strained and brief.
He wanted to discuss our life insurance policies, which I had to get my attorney to send a letter to him in order to have him follow through, amongst other things that he did not follow through on. Sadly, I had to pay an attorney to motivate him, since he is a Narc, he never thinks he is wrong and I am always wrong....still I supose to this day.
He tried to get me to agree to believing I should pay something re: taxes from 2 years ago and he also discussed with me how broke he is -"living pay check to pay check" paying me, oh his child support went up and he had some comment about that. And that he wishes he could see D more ofetn but the plane fairs are expensive, etc etc. All in all he was nice, I was nice and I maintained my boundaries. And I ended the call, as I was at work.
I have to say I think I have finally moved into the acceptance phase that my mariirage is over, the fantasy is dead and he is moved on with a much younger woman and lives 1200 miles away seeing our daughter infrequently. But hearing from him, even though the content was blech-I was happy to talk to him. sad sad I know, pathetic I know, I was even hoping it was the beginning of the end of his new relationship and maybe he was going to start talking to me, confiding things again. Which, believe me, I will maintain the boundaries and not go there-but I was excited that it may have come to that.
Do you think it was odd that he called and talked to me about all of that-at length , then asking what my plans were for the summer, etc (I am sure pertaining to D visiting) but this wa the first conversation other than just the facts mam in awhile.
Shyloh
Playedwithfire
Odd?
Yup Ideal
RED FLAG
Life Insurance
kizzy
Let's redirect and do some advanced damage control
you got that right Michele
Playedwithfire
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To Agnes
Odd?
Thanks Agnes, yup for a
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