Has he really left me alone or is he just waiting ...

to see if I will contact him?

It's been a while since I posted anything on here however I still read many stories which are always inspiring and emotional.

My ex N went through a phase about a month of phone calls every week and then a text message asking me to call him and then his mother passing by house and stopping to take a look.

Of course I didn't respond to any of this and I will admit that it has been really hard not to contact him asking him what he wants, however if it is that important then he would continue to try or text what he wants.

Now the phone calls and texts have stopped. Nothing.

My question is this - do I take this as a sign that he has finally relented and will leave me alone obviously getting the picture that I want nothing to do with him? Or is he just playing a waiting game to see if my curiousity will get the better of me and I contact him? Or will he wait until the new year and try again?

Seriously is this just a sick game to them? My psychologist says that he is playing with me and that whatever it is not about me but all about him and any real or perceived crisis and that he wants something from me.