He Said he will spend time with me ONLY if I text naked pics...

What they really wanted was to see how much they could control us and the power they had over us. dirty pics? ya sure all of them like that, but that was only a SMALL reason why they wanted us to send naked pictures, the main reason was for power and control and I am sure it gives them a good excuse too to stonewall us because they can then focus their attention on their other pursuits while we are on the back burner on hold so to speak, until we straighten up and behave right and do as they say!!!!!

it was like he was plotting the entire time, he used the pics against me when i wanted to break up thats how he kept me so long. i am going to show everyone at your job the slut that you are.... Me: baby u said those pics were for ur viewing pleasures only. Narc: shut the eff up bitch. do you want to leave me now? Me: No yuck

Lets look at our reaction to this from another perspective: Oh Gee, are we going to walk around thinking, OMG my narc will never see me again unless I do this for him, I am such a disapointment to him, I better try harder to feed his sickness. I THINK NOT. That is exactly what they want us to do, why cant we apply all that to everything they want us to do? I know I am going to worry that I failed because I never sent him vile perverted porn shots of myself, ha ha ha This is how we free ourselves we have to stop and think why we were not worthy in their eyes, because we did not conform and cater to a mentally disordered person, that is all it boils down to. Not too long ago he called and left a message and said, I just wanted to call and say hi and talk to you. I thought oh gee you mean you didnt want to know if I masturbated today thinking about you, you actually wanted to talk to me as one human to another, what a revelation, you wanted to know what my favorite color was, or what I like in my coffee, or anything about ME personally that wasnt related to something sick, twisted and perverted? I still have some pretty bad days thinking of what this man did to me but I always hold constant in my heart and mind that I am and have ALWAYS been a beautiful person and nobody will ever take that away from me again and if they try, SAD for them for what they lost.

these testimonies are indicative of how the tormented begs the tormentor for anything a kick, a crock of shit anything rather than SILENCE! the tool they manipulate you with from the beginning. They are Sick FUCKs and Im sick of being sad over this. I choose to laugh at them. Ridicule and detestation thats what they are getting from me from now on.

Yep. I can't remember the number of times he refused to talk to me and I'd be crying and texting, "please, baby, please talk to me, I miss you so much. I can't do anything it hurts so much" and he'd text "Pictures." After a few hours I'd finally text one saying, "ok, baby, whatever you say, anything you want. Please talk to me. Please see me." He'd answer, "More." If that's not indication of no soul, I don't know what is.

It is really a blessing when our narcs say completely offensive things like this. It cuts through the fog a bit more each time and hits us that these people really see us as objects. My narc said almost the exact same thing to me! After about 2 months of emails he said "I want you to know that the pics you've sent me are not enough, you know I need to see skin" when I didn't come across with any, he went silent for 2 weeks. These are all signs, red flags. It still amazes me even after almost a year on the site, how our Narcs seem to be the same guy, right down to the phrases they say, almost word for word!

HA HA HA I am laughing because mine has done the SAME EXACT THING, if I didnt send naked pics he would stonewall me, hey go ahead and stonewall me until the end of time you will never get naked pics of me. Oh is that all he wanted just boob and ass shots, oh thats NOTHING, mine wanted PORN shots, spread eagle showing EVERYTHING, actually told me what pic he wanted and what position. ya right, you want porn go google it. Wont see you unless you sent naked pics? GOOD, you dont want to see him anyway.

How old is this guy, 13? They need to see a naked photo like an adolescent boy seeing a woman for the first time??? How Summer of 42!

PIECE OF SHIT is what you should send him a picture of. Delete his number!

HOW ORIGINAL! tell him to go and play in the traffic.

What a guy you have there!!!!!! I'd take the option of not seeing him rather than playing into his sick games.... How romantic.....mine would send countless naked pics and disgusting videos to ow but he never sent me any like that - so you can imagine the shock I was in when I found out. He only ever sent me decent pics of himself...THANK GOD!!! I never sent him any dirty ones and he never asked me to...yours probably has ow out there doing the same thing, it's food for them, control and power....don't give in..x

Typical....these narcs are so alike it's quite sick. yes, I remember- he always wanted me to send pics of my boobs and *ss. Nevermind the face or lovely smile of a person . They are truly sick people. Narcs are only interested in body parts with no feelings. As long as he can use you for a moment, that is all they are interested in. Ignore and stay NC. That is the ONLY way you can ever live your life happily ever again....

this has just reminded me of the pictures that he has of me. No NOT naked lol but ones of me with his shirt on, i bet he still has them, i can just imagine him in front of his mirror...YUK

I remember mine taking naked pictures of me while i was sleeping. When i found them on his mobile i just got so angry that i asked him to get his stupid ass out of my flat.. He could not understand what was wrong in this that he took them.