Help. Thoughts of Guilt because I broke it off
Help. Thoughts of Guilt because I broke it off
Help.... I have recently been feeling guilt over my breaking it off with him, and I didn't cave over the holiday period even though I was sent numerous texts. I felt so strong through what I thought would be my weakest moments over Christmas.
But now I am having this overwhelming feeling to comfort him??? What on earth is going on. I'm concerned for his mental state from what he is saying in his texts. He is unstable. This feeling is so pervasive that I'm forgetting all the bad. My mind is beginning to become numb again.
I kept saying to myself over and over, "think about your needs", not his. And reminding myself of what he has done to me. But the guilt seems to be overriding all the other logic.
Does anyone have some insight into what is happening, particularly because I was so determined and strong over Christmas and didn't give him any thought, without any guilt.
Melba
Testing time
My now ex-narc and I started
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Melba for the love of God, please listen to Goldie!!!
Layla, thank you.
Also want to add........
You abuser will guilt you with sappy songs or texts, etc
Don't do it Melba
Thank you greatly
I understand your feelings of