hi it's sweetsamm

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#1 Oct 20 - 8PM
sweetsamm
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hi it's sweetsamm

Hey everyone...been a while...sorry..been working like 50hrs a week,trying to write,paint, and raise a daughter,totally crazy. Anyway,a guy who is a single guy in the group i hangout in kept asking me out..totally not interested,but,he said we'll just have a chill night at my place,he'd cook for me and my male roomate...no pressure...so,had an ok time,he starts texting me the next morning,saying 'hey', i said thanks....then he's pressuring me for another 'date', i tell him i'm busy...finally after 5days of nonstop texts i stop texting him back...well, i get a posting on my wall on facebook in all capitals saying how i let a great man go,how selfish i am after HE went out of HIS way for a nice evening for me and warning other guys to run from me....so, i just erase the post,totally embarassing for HIM, well the next day i get an email that is titled WOW..here it is word for word....
I hope if you decide to treat another guy like shit as you did me, that he saw my wall post on your facebook and dumps you like you deserve. too bad too,all you had to do was send a 10sec text that said im just not feeling it, no prob, but no you have to be fucking rude and blow me off and totally ignore me after i went out of my way for an evening with you. it's no wonder you are single at 42,you are a flake, and very rude and have the body of a young teenage boy. Fuck off, and if you see me someday,turn the other way,cause i will let you have a piece of my mind. In the future to avoid this kind of outburst just be honest with guys and quit being such a BITCH!!!
OMG....this is without a kiss.....can u imagine if i wouldve dated him.....i never responded to him and blocked him from contacting me....i'm sure that drove him even more mad...

Oct 21 - 5AM
Alive
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my

goodness, i was thinking about you last night....and here you are!!
Oct 21 - 10AM (Reply to #14)
sweetsamm
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happynow

that makes me happy,i'm glad to hear someone was thinking of me.....i've been so busy,plus,my best gf found out her husband was cheating with a woman from work,so i was basically staying with her while she figured things out,lots of crying and wine,lol.....she's decided to try and make things work since they have a child....it was wierd actually being involved in drama that wasn't mine...
Oct 20 - 11PM
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Happened to me too...

I dated a guy last spring on a break from the narc. I called him up and was brutally honest and told him "I'm sorry, if we can just be friends or something, I thought I would develop feelings for you but I'm just not. I'm sorry" He gets off the phone like everything's fine. Then he loses it. He texted me like crazy, went out, got drunk, broke some guy's arm, texting me play-by-plays...and told me off on a mutual friend's Facebook wall. Crazy! Some ppl are really effed. He still writes random stuff on his Facebook profiles about me, rude little digs about how he's single cuz of ppl like me and stuff.
Oct 20 - 9PM
NancyM
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Woooow sweetsamm

NOT about HIM...about you. Look how far you have come...soooo proud. Ha ha and up his ASS, it goes to show, stop being the immediate people pleaser and the Narc reveals himself VERY quickly. Hope all the Narcs DO run the other way, so it will only be the nice guys left standing. Thumbs up;)) Oh, and if at 42 you have the body of a teenage boy, I am probably feeling a teensy bit jealous..lol.

Nevergoback

Oct 20 - 9PM
betty2020
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Run little rabbit

Run little rabbit RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

Oct 20 - 9PM
blueeyes
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Eww!

Where are the good ones?
Oct 20 - 9PM
kiwi10
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yuck

what a FREAK dude... i had a guy do that to me too. right after my husband left i had a rebound fling with a 35 yr old and when i stopped seeing him, and tried to let him down easy, he FREAKED out on me like that guy did you!! YIKES
Oct 21 - 2AM (Reply to #2)
sweetsamm
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adolescent body......ummmmm

All i have to say is if i have the body of an adolescent boy, doesn't that make him a bit of a pedophile for being attracted to me in the first place....just sayin,lol....
Oct 21 - 10AM (Reply to #8)
Susan32
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"Attracted because you look like a boy"

One of my friends said that the ex-Psych professor was attracted to me because I "looked like a boy." I'm a bit tomboyish. The fact is, he liked it when I wore jeans and t-shirts, but could not stand it if I wore dresses. I could be dressed as modestly as a Mormon fundamentalist wife or someone Amish/Mennonite, and he'd still call me a slut. He had a circle of young male students. So yeah, similar situation... The only issue is that the ex-P was extremely homophobic and said awful things about gays.
Oct 21 - 5AM (Reply to #5)
Alive
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lol

yes you are right...he is very attracted to you, oh dear. This boy has issues. Samm you know what is going on, don't you lol??
Oct 21 - 10AM (Reply to #6)
sweetsamm
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hey again happynow

what's going on?? Am i missing something,lol...
Oct 21 - 3PM (Reply to #7)
Alive
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what

blueeyes says!. He thinks he is a 'little boy' and you were abusing him?
Oct 21 - 5AM (Reply to #3)
blueeyes
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SweetSam...

This is scary..a bit of a pedophile? Yikes girl.
Oct 21 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
sweetsamm
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I was kinda joking because

I was kinda joking because referring to my body as that of an adolescent boy..lol,must make him a bit of a pedophile if he was attracted to me in the first place..........AND, it's kinda funny because the only thing in that whole crazy email that got to me was that line,lol.....i mean i'm tiny,but i do have boobs and a butt....haha...i don't know if this guy is an N,but it definitely doesn't take much to set him off..