The Hit and Run Pattern

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#1 Jun 4 - 4PM
Loren12
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The Hit and Run Pattern

I'm really proud of myself! I have been LC for weeks and only limit contact to texts/emails (trying to keep things in writing to create a paper trail). I do not contact him. He only contacts me. I've been noticing a pattern lately, a sort of "hit and run" pattern and I need help in figuring out what on earth he is doing. Here's the typical scenario: I hear nothing from him for days or a week, then he'll suddenly appear asking me to call him or request to see the baby. I'll ignore him for a day or two. He'll then say something utterly stupid, which pisses me off. I respond telling him off and calling him out on his stupidity. He won't respond and will disappear for days or a week. Then the cycle begins again and again. Now mind you, progress is never made and he never gets his phone call from me or anything else. I am now thinking that that is his way of sucking negative energy from me, right? Since he no longer has my admiration or love (and I don't think he wants it because he has been completely mean and nasty via text), then he is willing to settle for any bit of attention from me. Am I right? I am assuming this is his way of trying to keep me in the picture because he knows that since I never initiate contact with him, he'll never hear from me again.

Jun 4 - 8PM
abreva
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Stop responding like this

Jun 4 - 4PM
Deidre99
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If he refuses to have his

Jun 4 - 4PM
Janie53
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I agree 100% with Hunter. You

Jun 4 - 4PM
Hunter
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Youre catching on.. I