How do you regain your power after you broke NC and were ignored?
How do you regain your power after you broke NC and were ignored?
Any suggestions for how to regain dignity after being rejected when you foolishly reached out to your EX N again? I called mine on the way to ER two weeks ago when I had a bad injury. He did not respond so I guess he does not care if I am dead or alive...
This reminds me of when I broke up with him the summer of 2004 and actually left him a message "You do not care if I am dead or alive". I dated others and was doing ok back then until my crazy neighbor started stalking me, and I went back to EX N for protection and comfort. I see my pattern, I lose my resolve in crisis and call him when I am scared...
How do you regain forward motion when someone is this cold? I honestly thought he still cared for me but just moved on to a new life. he does not care about me at all.
Do we truly not exist in their minds after 10 or 11 years of them making love to us?? Or is it the control thing - not wanting someone asking anything of them? Mine hated to be asked anything - he had a pathological reaction to being questioned about simple things or asked for simple favors.
They are freaks! Do not contact them! I set myself way back getting rejected while in terrible physical pain..By the way, I am healing very well after 2 weeks and may be ok after a month or so...But I left him feeling I still need him, like he has the upper hand. How do I reverse this, for me to not feel powerless...
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I just broke my 8 week NC and
mer569
Thanks, used.... I appreciate
Mer...
I remeber hearing that too,
Mer
Michele.. Thank you for that.
You don't exist to him right
thanks deecbee
Regaining power
I would look at it as he
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Toe jam
He doesn't have the upper hand
thanks guys
In addition
They are nuts, they feel for
I don't know the best way but...
stay~strong
ifinallygot it
You stop defining your power or worth on him....
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