How to Handle "sightings"
How to Handle "sightings"
On another thread, someone was mentioning fear of picking up the phone and having their N on the other line.
I'm eight months out now. Intellectually, I know I have nothing to fear of him now that he is newly married. But still fear persists. I've not been able to go to my favorite grocery store for weeks now. My fear of seeing him with new wife is overwhelming to me. He also works very close by. I saw him about a month ago at an intersection, I ignored him, but I did SEE him. UGH!!! I was just sick. He looked almost "bigger than life" to me. He works five minutes away and lives ten minutes away. Does anyone here have any advice as to how to mentally prepare myself for the inevitable? I'm tired of giving up my life and my favorite places to avoid him. Also, I know he would love to see me suffer in the event that I do see him. I'm lined up for a new therapist next week that specializes in EMDR therapy. I'm very excited about this and am praying and hoping that she can help me through this. My last one just didn't get it. This one knows about personality disorders. I've got to do something the cog/dis and pain feels like death to me. Thank you so much!
EMDR
EMDR
In the early days/weeks of NC- avoiding places is SELF LOVE
I think if you give it time,