How Treatment Can Make a Pathological More Dangerous

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#1 Oct 27 - 7AM
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How Treatment Can Make a Pathological More Dangerous

by Kathy Krajco

It is often pointed out that treatment increases the recidivism rate and even makes the patient more dangerous. Here is one example of how that can happen.

Let's say that you're a narcissist in treatment. You flew into a rage at another patient yesterday. The therapist asks you about the incident. You say that you felt slighted by something that patient did and lost your temper.

The therapist knows, however, that you regained your temper in one nanosecond upon the arrival of a nurse.

"Yeah, so what?" you think.

But then as the therapist discusses this with you, she reveals that normal people don't just switch off their anger like that. You see that she is suspicious that you just lay in the weeds and go off at people whenever the coast is clear and they least expect it.

So, you have learned something valuable. Now you know how to fake real human behavior better. Now you can fool people better. You eventually learn enough to fool the therapists themselves, because they tell you everything you need to know in order to fool them.

She thought she was helping you explore your feelings and understand yourself. But she wasn't. She was just teaching an old dog new tricks.

This is why people entering therapy should be screened for psychopathy and narcissism. For, they need a radically different method of treatment than other patients. Simply because their behavior isn't based on normal human premises.

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Oct 27 - 9AM
Shelley (not verified)
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teaching the psycho

Dr. Phil often says "we teach people how to treat us." But I think when it comes to disordered people, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. If a trained therapist can be fooled by these wackos, then what hope is there for the rest of us when it comes to relating to the personality disordered? Is avoidance the only answer? Should we arm ourselves with knowledge of "red flags" and the minute we spot one of these flags run like hell? Or is that being paranoid?
Oct 27 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
4joys (not verified)
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I dont think therapists are

I dont think therapists are looking for this. My narc went to therapy because I said he would have to get on the ball or the marriage would end. Maybe because she saw him as seeking help for himself, she dismissed the possibility of narcissism. If I knew about it I would have been more on my guard. I just didnt know people like this existed. Now, when I see a red flag, I run like the wind. Better safe than sorry.
Oct 27 - 7PM (Reply to #3)
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I took my husband to a

I took my husband to a couples counselor who said he saw nothing irreparable going on in our relationship, and thought ex was just fine (or something like that). Later found out he had a very low reputation and often his notes consisted of nothing but doodles. But I can see how even a "good" therapist could miss this stuff if the N is "on" for the session. However I should say that the supervisor for our visitation (when the restraining order was in effect STBX visited the kids in a center) saw right through him on the PHONE.