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I broke NC rule on xmas eve

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#1 Dec 24 - 9AM
laxl
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I broke NC rule on xmas eve

I know my ex is a narc... textbook example. The breakup has been more painful than I can describe. He has no cares about me or the times we shared. So I know these things and that no amount of crying pleading talking ANYTHING will change him. Yet like an idiot I called him this morning to say merry xmas and how much I love and miss him. He didn't answer so I left a msg but am sure he won't call back. I'm just so lost & sad and am trying to act happy in front of my family but I just feel dead inside. To all others hurting from a narc - my xmas wish for us all is love and peace.

Dec 24 - 3PM
Goldie
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I understand my dear

I kept looking for water from the dry well as well with the narc for 2 years. 3 years ago, he went to the Xmas company party without me. No Christmas present and we were living together. Last Christmas he spent it in jail for domestic abuse and this Christmas HE IS GONE. Thank you God. I no longer have to play the "waiting game" there would have been nothing but PAIN, DRAMA, and GROSS NEGLECT. As much as this hurts right now, and we ALL know how much this is, you are far better off by yourself and us than with a man who has NO CLUE HOW TO LOVE. We love you because we have all been there and we know you pain. Trust me, in time the pain will lesson and the sun will shine again. Hang in and keep sharing your feelings, you are not alone in this, hon. We all understand. God bless and Merry Christmas to you from US to YOU. You are worth more, you deserve more, and in time you will get more. Goldie
Dec 24 - 9AM
Hunter
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I'm sorry, today is a very

I'm sorry, today is a very painful day for many.. It's also a day that a narc will bathe in supply and the gift in return will be abuse..( silent treatment ) Try and make the best of it.. Lisa's book is a handy tool to "the Path forward". Get your self a Gift and buy the book today.. Hunter
Dec 24 - 10AM (Reply to #2)
laxl
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Thank you Hunter. Finding

Thank you Hunter. Finding this website has been about the best Christmas gift I could imagine. It makes me sad to know there are others suffering out there, but I am glad for the company and the wisdom others have to share.
Dec 24 - 10AM (Reply to #3)
uk lady
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Welcome Laxl

Keep close to the forum, it will definitely help during the holidays. And read, read, read until you feel crazy, better to be crazy from knowledge, than abuse. Dee x