I broke no contact after 2 weeks :(
I broke no contact after 2 weeks :(
I broke no contact today and it has almost been 2 weeks! I unblocked him today and made up an excuse in my head why I needed to talk to him. (The reason is true, it just wasnt an urgent situation). I noticed yesterday that the exN also stole all of my winter stuff when he broke in. His dad contacted me so I asked him to ask the N if he has my stuff. The N told his dad that he gave it back to me, he did this knowing that he did not and that I would contact him, I would put money on it! And guess what? He was right.
Today I asked him if he had my stuff, he told me that it is most likely in his storage unit (not the same thing that he told his dad!). Then I got sucked into a conversation with him about holiday plans, how work was going, how my car was doing in the snow, told me what he has been up to, how he wants a new car, what he plans to get, ect.
And now he randomly stopped responding just like he always does and I am sitting here waiting for him to say something.
I plan on blocking him again today. I was just so upset. I can only block him from texting me not calling. And normally if he doesnt hear from he within a couple of days and if I dont respond to a text he will call but he didnt this time. While I know that this is a good thing it also hurt. I am sure that he was waiting it out for me to contact him.
He must have new supply right now and doesnt need me or think of me. Last time he had a new girl she wasnt good enough at giving him supply because he kept me around the whole time. Maybe this girl is better?
However, when I text him I got an immediately got a response from him. This just proves that he will never go away. Even if he is not contacting me he will respond when I contact him. So why am I so sad? I know that IF I ever need him he will be just a phone call away. Willing to answer or come over whenever I want him to, even if he has a new girl.
I felt better when I contacted him at first. When I am talking to him it is like a rush. Like a drug. I am so pulled into the conversation and it feels so good. Then when he doesnt respond and leave me hanging I kick myself for breaking no contact. Sad :(
Awe
It's ok! I read somewhere
Oh geez
wow
Don't beat yourself up over it...
stay~strong
i have been there....so many