i broke into his emails.
here's what i found out:
his back packing trip was one of his x girlfriends and her friend coming to visit, he payed for their hotel room. an elegant hotel, while he deducted 80 dollars from my support this month...
he also has been writing to women on craigslist SURPRISE!! wow.. I'm shocked... here's the heartbrake for me
copy and pasted shit from his emails:
i made such a big big mistake. i married someone i didnt love, thinking i would eventually, that the relationship would grow and get better. i was going to be good and do all the right things and we were going to have children and start a family and life would be good
then suddenly 4 years pass by in this disastrous relationship and i'm back to square one with nothing to show for it but 4 years of wear and tear. stupid me.
you sound a lot smarter.
the bad boy thing - what is it with you girls and that ? i admit i've been bad before and when i was, i became exhausted from all the sex. but i was just outwardly bad - and the problem with it was i was about to ruin my life. i burned bridges with people - i made enemies - i was messing up my career - and came close to going to jail too many times. But that was back in my thirties. been there done that. now i would just like to meet a nice lady who appreciates some sanity and safety
i'm 6 ft tall with a little meat on my bones. i dont ride a motorcycle (used to until i saw my life flash before my eyes once too often) but i have been known to ride my bicycle to work and back. i dont play a guitar either but i am an amateur percussionist - am not that bad really. and i also have a few flutes i try to play on occasion. its important to be a gentleman about things. and i love to lay around and watch old movies - its just so hard to find time to do such things. i'm no saint either but i've given up playing the bad-boy its no way to get ahead.
i know my resemblances to your ex are only superficial but i couldnt help but notice a few. i'll tell you something about guys Michal as if you didnt know already - we are heartbreakers. you girls are soft inside and you start loving us and we just take what we want and go. its terrible it really is.
i hope you had a nice day maybe you will write back sometime
i'm a lawyer.
the last person i was really crazy about - before my disastrous marriage - left me. i had heartache for a year i missed her so bad. but time has a way of making you forget and i'm completely over it. she even called me recently when she heard i was single again. she wants me back now but its too late
have a laugh !
there are obviously many others, but this is the only i saw with me mentioned at all...
it sure is nice to know he was heartbroken over his x, but he never loved me.... good to know....