I do not mean to come off as a bitch

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#1 May 6 - 4PM
Movingforwardnow
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I do not mean to come off as a bitch

So sorry if that is the case.

What I know is this:
1. You will not get help, listen to advice, or get better until you have had a fucking enough.

2. The advice, knowledge and experience on this forum is PRICELESS. If you choose not to take it and remain in "poor me" mode you will not get better.

3. There are 6 steps to follow here...proven steps...that will help you heal, if you choose to ignore them no one can do it for you.

4. Many wonderful, wise, been there done that, women dedicate theri time freely to help those in need. Appreciate them, do not get offended by them...they are here for one reason and one reason only...To pay if afford and to offer their experience, strength and hope.

5. You must have an open-mind to the advice given here. Remove yourself from the "victim mentality" and get into recovery. Self - love is where that will start.

I could go on and on all day but will stop here. If you don't get it by now, reading, posting, working the steps well, I am sorry, you won't get it until you hit rock bottom. What will it take: losing your children, getting punched in the eye, death at the hands of these disordered freaks, raising your children thinking abuse is ok, what will it take? Ask yourself that and when you have had enough you will moveforward....until then there really is nothing to say.

I know I sound like a bitch and I am sorry for that. But, I was punxhed in the eye, I was lied, cheated on, stole from, abused in many forms and finally he tried to drown me in the pool. ENOUGH IS A FUCKING ENOUGH!

Listen to the advice, even the tough love advice, the kind we don't want to hear and read, read, read, post, post, post, get the books, work the steps, one on one with Goldie. If you want help you will do these things with no excuses.

Just me two sense. Stay strong and stay NC.

movingforward now (and NEVER, EVER FUCKING GOING BACK)

Jul 19 - 12PM
fern
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Enough

May 6 - 6PM
no more an echo
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i'd rather be a bitch than a victim!

May 6 - 7PM (Reply to #7)
Movingforwardnow
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no more an echo

May 6 - 8PM (Reply to #12)
no more an echo
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forgiving him (eventually) is really all about me

May 6 - 9PM (Reply to #15)
bgirl
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It is such a personal

May 6 - 8PM (Reply to #13)
Movingforwardnow
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no more echo

May 6 - 9PM (Reply to #14)
no more an echo
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Movingforwardnow...

May 6 - 7PM (Reply to #9)
phantom adoration
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I had to read Echo's response

May 6 - 8PM (Reply to #10)
Movingforwardnow
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My bad...sorry

May 6 - 8PM (Reply to #11)
phantom adoration
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For whatever reason

May 6 - 7PM (Reply to #8)
Movingforwardnow
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P.S.

May 6 - 5PM
Movingforwardnow
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Thanks for seeing my point of view....

May 6 - 5PM
phantom adoration
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bitchin' not bitch

May 6 - 5PM
janemarie
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Excellent Post Biatch (hahaha)

May 6 - 4PM
Janie53
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Honesty is the best policy;

May 6 - 4PM
Goldie
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Brilliant Movingforwardnow