I Need Some Advice Please

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#1 Apr 27 - 12PM
LoserFree
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I Need Some Advice Please

Last Friday night I went out to a restaurant/bar with my friends. Actually, my friends and I go there every Friday night and my XN definitely knows that. It's my "hang out" not HIS.

So my friend and I are sitting at the bar and in walks F**kFace. He walks right up to me, rubs my back for a second and says "hey how are you"? Like he gave a rats ass!!

His friend walks in so I talk to him for a bit. Shortly after he turns to his friend and says "our table is ready let's go sit down'. So I figure the two of them are having dinner.

WRONG!!

About an hour later in walks XN New Supply of 7 months. Now I can feel that sick feeling coming over me....Anxiety attack taking over my entire body. I'm sure you can all related to THAT feeling!!

So then he gets up from his table (he could have sat in the restaurant to eat but picked a booth in the bar where I had full view of them), and starts parading her around. Talking to the people I am friendly with as if they are his best buddies. I heard the whole thing made people uncomfortable.

Well they go back to sit at their table and I am literally sick to my stomach...They are directly in my view. I can't do it anymore so I pay my check and tell my friend I am OUTTA HERE!!!!

I get in my car and text him"Why the hell would you bring her here? Haven't I suffered enough? Thanks a lot"

Please don't yell at me! I'm sure you want to put your hands through your computer and strangle me!!! I know that was TOTALLY the wrong thing to do NOW, but I hadn't found this site yet and didn't know the do's and don'ts with a Narc. I definitely filled his tank with supply sending that text. YUK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's my dilemma, This is where I and a lot of people I enjoy being around go on Fridays. I have been going there for a long time without him. I don't want to give that up and don't think I should have to because of the LOSER.

So if he shows up there again tonight (with or without her) what do I do?
If I say hello back to him that's breaking NC BIG TIME
If I don't people may believe the lies he has said about me. That I have been a mean and angry bitch to him and that's why he HAD to leave me for good. By ignoring him completely they might think ya he's right what a bitch.

I don't know what to do...
I would appreciate any input you have so I do the right thing!!

Thank you for all your support!!

LoserFree

Apr 27 - 8PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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He did

Apr 27 - 9PM (Reply to #11)
LoserFree
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what does Triangulation mean

Apr 27 - 5PM
Janie53
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Loser Free

Apr 27 - 5PM (Reply to #8)
LoserFree
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Janie that was not only

Apr 28 - 7AM (Reply to #9)
Janie53
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Loser Free

Apr 27 - 12PM
sweetpeasarah
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Well..

Apr 27 - 1PM (Reply to #5)
LoserFree
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You don't think he will think

Apr 27 - 2PM (Reply to #6)
Deidre99
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There will come a day...so

Apr 27 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
Froglegs
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I agree.

Apr 27 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
LoserFree
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You are right. Especially

Apr 27 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
BtrflyGrl
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People are going to believe