I think I might vomit - Match.com
I think I might vomit - Match.com
I have not posted my story here yet because I am afraid it could somehow be seen by my Ex-N. I was trotting along at 6 weeks NC. I was beginning to feel OK. Not good, but OK...better. A little stronger every day. Then out of the blue at 10 oclock one night she starts with the texting. This is a pattern with her, but since I ended things I mostly have ignored the texts and for that I was proud of myself. After this last round, I am seriously considering paying the $5 month to have her blocked by my cell phone provider. (I can't believe they charge for this!!). Anyway, in our previous conversations when we talked about her lack of commitment, each time she made a point of saying "I'm not out there on Match.com!" It was almost like Brair Rabbit "Don't throw me in the briar patch!" It also reminds me of someone else's recent post where they mentioned any sentence the narc says that begins with "YOU" is them projecting their own faults and insecurities onto you. All you have to do is change that first word with "I" and then you have the truth. Anyway, after this last flurry of texts I discover she is on Match. To top it off, lying about her age...unreal. It makes me question what else did she lie to me about these last few years??? The funny thing is I broke things off months ago, and she sends ME a text saying "IT IS OVER" WTF??? After I didnt jump on the offer of sex. They really just cannot accept that they might not be in control and we may be strong enough not to be their puppets anymore! Apparently she set up her dating profile just a day or so after I didn't jump on her "offer" and she proclaimed the relationship I had already ended was over. I do not want her to be able to rattle my cage like this anymore. Help?! Someone, anyone...
Hunter is so right, delete,
They will pull out all the stops
Bizarre
Don't look. Looking is what
I am so sorry she is still
BTW - whatever happened to Briseis?
I know you are right