I want to keep reminding myself of the bad

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#1 Dec 9 - 8PM
Happy1
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I want to keep reminding myself of the bad

When he lived with me these past few months, he would come in and eat dinner and not talk. He really wouldn't. I would ask him how his day was and he would give me a one word response. "fine" or "ok". Wow! So, I would ask another question to try and get a small conversation going so it didn't feel like I was still living alone. He wouldn't talk. So finally, a few weeks into it, I became a stone and didn't say anything either. I would sit and watch tv or crochet and he would sit and look at his stupid iphone and watch tv. I was miserable and I want to remember that. He would not ask me what I wanted to watch on tv EVER! He would turn on what he wanted to watch and to h*ll with me. He also sent an invite to his friend asking him and his wife over for a night of dinner and drinks without asking me first if that was a good night or if I felt like it. He was self centered and a horrible man. No fun and constantly yelled at the kids. He was very hard on my son and always favored his. He never treated them equal and it upset me quite a bit. We had constant arguments over that.
I want to remember how suspicious I always was of him and true to my suspicion I was spot on every time. He was always cheating on me or flirting on email with PTO ladies or people from work. He is a HUGE facebook user and loves to get attention to himself on there. He just posted the other day how someone called him Dr. for the first time in years and he really liked it and appreciated it. I wanted to puke as soon as I read it. It's all about stroking that ego of his and making him feel good. I don't have to do that any longer!!!!

Dec 10 - 6AM
onwithmylife
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Happy 1

I relate to your comments about the TV, it was always what he wanted,never once did he ever ask me either what would you like to watch. sometimes i would go over there , nearly an hour drive back and forth and he would e reading his book and I would sit down on the couch or a separate chair and say to myself, why the hell did I come over here in the first place, he hardly ever said anything to me during those times, Ifelt like a piece of furniture, because I was. Once in a while he was very chatty but on rare times.Oh if i did want to watch something different from him, he would throw me a bone sometimes and THEN instead of keeping me company, like I always did with him, would get up and go into another room to read his book. God forbid he stay with me.I would say why don't you stay with me, and he would say i don't want to watch that..like a 2 year old toddler who if he cannot get his way, leaves the game. Someone said in another post, infantile, little toddlers in grown mens bodies, it says it all and he is in his 60's.
Dec 9 - 8PM
michele115 (not verified)
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MIne did the same thing

Come home expect dinner sit in front of the idiot box with the laptop and the celly mommie paid for - little did I even think that he was trolling on both devices. I started a FB addiction after I got tired of feeling like part of the furniture in my own home! Never any time to talk...he was always caught up in some chaos Never any quality time... I was just created to serve him...Humph! Useless really and he will either find his mother in some woman and completely destroy her Or he'll be changin 'em like we change our drawers. To hell with him. I have a cat and can buy anything else I might need and not have to worry about Aids, Herpes or Hep C. Bonvoyage loser...